Family Lifeline With Bisi Adewale – YOU CANNOT TIE HIM DOWN BY GETTING PREGNANT

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YOU CANNOT TIE HIM DOWN BY GETTING PREGNANT

Please, Sir, I love him dearly, he is all I’ve got and I cannot afford to lose him to another lady but my challenge now is what he’s s asking for.

He wants me to have sex with him because he believes it’s the only way our relationship can be secured and he will be sure I am all his.

I am afraid of getting pregnant; I don’t want to disappoint my parents who think I’m a virgin. I cannot afford to get pregnant now as I am still seeking admission into the university but Sir I love him with my life.

He is not just the love of my life but the life of my life. Actually, he deflowered me after which we promised ourselves never to do it again because it was a mistake but now he is asking for it and I don’t want him to go to another lady.

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That was Toni a young girl about to gain admission into the university already engulfed by infatuation.

Dear Single lady, if he truly loves you, he will be ready to wait for you.

If he truly loves you, he will not ask you for sex because he knows it is an abomination since both of you are not married.

Any guy asking you for sex is out to destroy your life, they are called ‘chop & go’ or ‘chop & clean mouth’

He only wants to have a share of your flesh so that he can have you as part of the ladies he can brag about that he has slept with.

You can never use pregnancy to tie any man down, the best that can happen is for his family to accept responsibility for the baby and you are left to carry the pregnancy and bear the shame of being a young naïve mother.

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My dear lady, place a very good value on yourself and any guy that comes your way will appreciate you for that. At this stage, you are expected to face your studies and graduate with a good grades.