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USE SOFT WORDS
I have never eaten any food as tasteless as this in my life, Onyi when are you going to learn? We are already 6 years in this marriage and your cooking has only gotten worse.
All you know is to make up, wear expensive clothes and party. You keep buying food from outside for the kids which I have told you severally I don’t like. Are you a woman at all? I regret getting married to your type. KC lamented.
Hey, hey, see KC you knew all these before you married me and you can’t change me today. That is who I am, I can’t be disturbing myself in the kitchen when i can easily get food outside.
At least I said we should get a maid but you bluntly refused. What do you want me to do, I can’t kill myself oo. Onyi replied in anger
Dear listener, two wrongs can never make a right and engaging in a shouting march will never solve the issues in your home.
You are not doing your spouse any favour by being married to him or her and so the word ‘I regret’ shouldn’t be found in your marriage dictionary.
Another thing is, change is the only constant thing in life and there is no one on earth who cannot get better in life, you only have to be willing to change.
Now to the matter at hand. Dear Wife, every man loves good food and not just any good food but the one directly from her kitchen.
It is not a crime if you don’t know how to cook but it is a crime punishable under the law of blissful marriage if you fail to learn and you just want your spouse to accept you as you are.
If I may ask Madam Slay Queen, who are you when you cannot prepare a delicious meal for your family? Haven’t you heard the saying ‘The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?’
In marriage, there must be balance, so as the husband, you can help by enrolling her in a catering school where she can learn and make sure you don’t speak harshly.
Remember a soft word turns away wrath.
