15 QUALITY GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE(Part2)
15 QUALITY GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE(Part2)
Bisi Adewale
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- Protection: Do everything to protect your spouse and his or her interests. You must protect your spouse from attacks from in-laws, friends, neighbours, etc. Never collude with your family or friends to attack or fight your spouse.
- Money: Be generous in giving. Your family should be number one on your spending plan.
“But if any provide not for family of his own and especially for those of his house, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel”. 1 Timothy 5:8
You cannot command the blessing of the Lord if you allow your family to starve. You can not see his good pleasure if you fail to take good care of your home.
- 10. Your Life Style: If your lifestyle and habits are not helping your marriage, it will be wise if you drop them. Your habits are not cast in marble, you can still change and improve, you can become better for the good of your home. If you are lazy, dirty, talkative, get angry easily, hate being corrected, eat too much, keep malice, nag, etc. Work on yourself. You need to develop yourself, if you want a better home.
Anti-marriage lifestyles must also change, such as extravagance, stinginess, night crawling, gluttony, etc.
- Comfort: Praise, encouragement, comfort, motivation should be part of your gifts to your spouse. Give them in abundance, never allow them to be in short supply; give generously. They are one of the best things you can give to your beloved husband or wife. Note what Rebecca did for Isaac
“And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebecca and she became his wife, and he loved her, and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death. Genesis 24:67
Be a source of comfort to your spouse, encourage him or her, do everything to make your partner happy.
- Peace: “Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy, without holiness no one shall see the Lord” Hebrews 12:14
Make sure you do everything to live at peace with your spouse; no malice, fighting, no quarrels, no nagging, resentment, bitterness, hatred, vengeance, strife, etc. Be a positive partner, take the right step to reconcile, be ready to apologise and be quick to forgive generously, never keep record of offences. Remove anything that can remind you of your hurts; let the Lord take the glory.
- Affection: Love your spouse generously, do not just love, show it, say it, act it, demonstrate it, make love happen, make God happy and give love a chance.
“Dear friends let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God”.
1 John 4:7
Strive to love your spouse, destroy everything that wants to erode your love for him or her. Your marriage cannot survive without love, love your spouse.
- Kindness and Goodness: Kindness is the sincere desire for the happiness of others. Goodness is the activity calculated to advance that happiness.
Be kind to your spouse; think of her, think of positive things you can do to make him or her happy.
Be good to your mate, do things just as an act of goodness and let your spouse be bold to say you are good.
- Sex and Romance: Do not deprive your partner of your body. In fact, your body belongs to him or her not you (1 Corinthians 7:1-5).
Let your spouse be totally satisfied with love action, romance, and sex. Make sure you improve your sex life and never remain on the same spot. Be better, be creative. Satisfy your spouse.
Please, get a copy of our book Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage for an in-depth teaching about sex. Do not allow your sex life to die or become boring. It is a gift from God, use it wisely and let the Lord be glorified.
15 QUALITY GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE(Part2)
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Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
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TS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE(Part2)
15 QUALITY GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE(Part2)
