13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
Bisi Adewale
13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
Honey is a period just after a wedding ceremony,most of the time it last for two weeks but it can be longer or shorter than that.
One thing I have noticed about honey moon is that lots of people are making serious mistakes about it. Here , I will open your eyes to what you must not do in honey moon. I will also advise you to read my previous article about what to do in honey moon .13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
DO NOT FAIL TO HAVE IT
Don’t fail to have honey moon,put it in your budget as you prepare for wedding,it is very important to take time out to be together after your wedding for the first time.
DON’T HAVE IT IN YOUR HOME
Honey moon should not be in your house where visitors will be coming to disturb and distract you. Get a nice place you can afford and be there together for some days.
NOT IN THE HOUSE OF RELATIVES. 13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
If you can not get a place for yourselves because of your budget,then you can look for a neutral place,may be the house of a mentor,but not in the house of relatives of any one of you
NOT TIME TO VISIT RELATIVES OR FRIENDS: Honey moon period is the time for both of you ,not the time to visit friends and relatives
NOT TIME FOR FASTING:Of course ,not the time to fast,you suppose to have done all your fasting before your wedding day.
DON’T FAIL TO PRAY
That you should not fast does not mean that you should not pray.Please ,pray.That is the time to pray together.As a new couple ,you will need God at every junction of your journey ;what better time to commit your journey into the hands of the Lord than now.
NOT TIME TO GO TO WORK. 13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
You should take some days off from work for your wedding and honey moon. Honey moon period is definitely not a period for professional duties
NOT THE TIME TO FAIL TO REST: Don’t fail to rest. Sleep like a baby,rest to burn off all the stress of wedding preparation.
NOT TIME TO SPEND ENDLESS TIME ON PHONES: The period is for both of you and your spouse. Not a period to call endlessly. Let your phones be switch off most of the time
NOT TELEVISION TIME: Honey moon period is not television period,let it be switch off most of the time.
NOT TIME TO SPEND ENDLESS TIME ON THE INTERNET: It is also not the time for 24/7 browsing,surfing the net or chatting with your friends .13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON
NOT TIME TO ENTERTAIN VISITORS
It is not the time to entertain your visitors,you are the guest of each other.So,entertain each other
NOT TIME FOR ABSTINENCE
It is not a time of abstinence from sex. I was told about a couple who said they are fasting so they must not have sex during honey moon ,that is totally wrong.
Honey moon period is the right time to enjoy sex together legally as a legitimately married couple. You are no more courting or dating,it is not cohabitation .So, sex is the icing on the cake of marital life, enjoy it. 13 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO DURING HONEY MOON