WOMEN DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE

 WOMEN DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE

WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale

WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
I was in a Couples banquet recently at Port- Harcourt as a facilitator, I was to talk about Romance in marriage,I accidentally threw a question to all the couples in the house,my question was ‘’What is romance. ?’’The answers I receive made me to realize that Women’s definition of romance in marriage was totally different from their male counterpart. WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
Men define romance as :
Romance is Sex
Romance is the activities you carry out before you have sex
Romance is good love making
Romance is deep and loving sex
WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE
When I asked the women’s counterpart, the answers were shocking, very shocking as they never mention sex or foreplay like the Men. WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
Women definition of  romance in marriage are in a more complex and complicated way. They defined it these way:
“touch me” “Kiss me”
“hold me” “take me out” WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
“Play with me” “Hug me”
“buy gift for me”
“Massage me”
“Help me in the kitchen” WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
“Help me carry the Baby”
“When am crying, hold me”
“When am fearful cuddle me”
“Treat me like a baby”
“Treat me like a queen”
“Wipe my tears”
“Follow me for shopping”
“Change the baby’s diapers” WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
“Carry the baby and let me have a nap”
“Sing for me”
“Write poem for me”
“Cuddle me without sex”
“Bath me”
“Help me cut my finger nails”
“Help me unload my hair”
“pray for me”
“Let me lean on your shoulder”
“Scratch my back for me”
“Help me unzip my bra”
“Help me unzip my skirt”
“Play with my hair”
“Play with my nose”
“Remember my birthday”
“Remember our wedding anniversary”
“Buy clothes,shoes and bags for me”
“Know the size of my shoe,clothes and pants”
“Buy panties for me”
“Buy lingerie for me”
“Carry me in the car to the office” WOMEN’S DEFINITION OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
“Buy flowers for me”
“Buy cards for me”
“Do the dishes”
“Surprise me”
“Play with me”
List of women’s definition of romance in marriage is endless.
To get your marriage right, you need to know the right definition of romance for your spouse.You need to ask questions,get answer and work on it for a better marriage.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale