Wisdom For The Marriage You Desire
-By Bisi Adewale –
Wisdom for the marriage you desire doesn’t just happen,there are many marriages out there and am very sure of this many are patching up their marriage in order to get result. Before getting marries there are some desires in your mind on how you wanted you marriage to be, the kind of relationship you wanted to build round yourself. Wisdom for the marriage you desire can be achieved if you follow the principles below.
You can have the marriage you desire of If you can follow these principles:
1: INVOLVE YOUR SHEPHERD
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. (Psalms 23:1-3
—You can’t reject your shepherd and get to green pastures in your marriage
— You can’t neglect your shepherd and get to the still waters in your home
— You can’t ignore your shepherd and get your soul restored in your family
2) RIGHT FOUNDATION
1 Kings 7:10 KJV
And the foundation was of costly stones, even great stones, stones of ten cubits, and stones of eight cubits.
— Foundation is the strength of any house, if the foundation is not alright, to make a marriage a success will only end in day dream.
— COSTLY STONES: Words of God: Your foundation must be based on the words of God not on the philosophy of man that will not face the test of time.
Money, Wealth,
— GREAT STONES: Obedient to God and his Command
— STONES OF 10 CUBITS
Double grace of God. Grace to begin and end well.
— STONES OF 8 CUBITS
Good beginning in God
3) ADEQUATE PREPARATION
There be four things which are little upon the earth, but they are exceeding wise: The ants are a people not strong, yet they prepare their meat in the summer; The conies are but a feeble folk, yet make they their houses in the rocks; (Proverbs 30:24-26 KJV)
— If you are not well prepared for a successful marriage, it will show in your result at home.
— Your preparation will make your family life different as it will make you well equip for a better family life.
4) GET WISDOM
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. (Proverbs 4:7 KJV)
— Wisdom that won a boy cannot keep a husband
— There is a special way to handle a woman for a long lasting marriage, get it.
— Get wisdom for every stage of your marriage
— increase wisdom about Money in marriage, intimacy, communication, parenting, sex etc.
5) GET ADEQUATE TRAINING
— Lack of Training is one of the Major killers of Marriage
— People lack adequate skills for great marriage, so they are messing up their homes.
— Great marriage is not cheap you don’t get it on the road, you need training.
Genesis 14:14
And when Abram heard that his brother was taken captive, he armed his trained servants , born in his own house, three hundred and eighteen, and pursued them unto Dan.
— Being born again is not enough to make your Marriage work, just the way been born again cannot turn you to a Doctor or an Engineer, you need Training.
