COUNSELLING: MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
Sir, my name is Edward. I married a lady since 2013 .Ever since then, the family have been controlling her. And presently they got a job in Lagos for her .For the past 6 months, she has been working in Lagos;I only visit her and my son once a month. MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
Recently,her parents forced to come and work in Lagos.
Presently ,all of us are now staying with my in-law now.
The worst case now is that I’m tired of this whole issue. She doesn’t listen to me again. She goes out and come in anytime she like and go out with her boyfriend (she has been having boyfriend since she came to Lagos) MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRSMY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
I’ve even reported her occasionally to her parents but nothing was done to stop her .
I’m tired of all this.
What can I do sir.
COUNSELLOR:
Hello Edward:
The situation on ground is a very complex one and it need to be handled carefully.
Firstly,you and your wife should take time out to see a marriage counsellor urgently.The earlier you do this the better for your marriage.MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
Also,you need to move out of your in-laws’s house.You can’t control the woman you can not house.
Even if it means getting a loan to secure an apartment where you and your wife can live,it worth it.MY WIFE IS HAVING EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS
Please,do this quickly before things degenerate further.Don’t pick up a fight with your spouse and stop reporting her to her parents.By all means,hold your peace.Shalom!
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