POSITIVE HOME
A positive marriage is a marriage that brings peace, joy and progress. It is a marriage where both parties are enjoying themselves, it is a relationship where the man is been treated as the King and the wife as the queen. A positive marriage glorifies God, establish righteousness, and bring forth Godly children.
If you desire a positive marriage then take your time to read this write -up and put them into use.
(1) POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE. If you desire a positive marriage, then have a positive mental attitude, for your attitude determines your altitude in life. Think positively about yourself your spouse, your marriage, your in-law. Never plan or think of divorcing your partner, never see marriage as a yoke but rather as something to be enjoyed. Think of forgiveness, acceptance, adjustment, reconciliation, trust etc, without a positive mind, your marriage can not become what you want it to be.
(2) POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD – If you must enjoy your marriage then you must befriend the author of marriage, you must befriend God, you must reconcile with Him, you must be genuinely born again, you must surrender your totality to Him, because it take a Godly heart to have a blissful home, if God is not in that home, you cannot but be in trouble, let Him lead you, He will not lead you astray.
(3) POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF: This may look funny, but that is the truth, unless you have positive relationship with yourself you cannot have positive relationship with others. You must deal with procrastination, laziness, worry, fear, guilt, moodiness, dirtiness etc. Unless all these are dealt with you will find it too difficult to relate positively with others.
