I have Irresistible Sexual Temptation
Hello sir,
I have Irresistible Sexual Temptation-I am a final year student at the University currently studying Accounting. A devoted born-again Christian who love the Lord passionately. Iam in a serious relationship with a born-again child of God who also love the Lord and both of us are deeply in love.I have Irresistible Sexual Temptation
Sir,our main challenge is that we are always tempted to express to one another through sex but we have never have sex.We are having this irresistible emotional attraction to one another and we don’t want to have sex before our wedding night because its against the Word of GOD. What can I do? I have Irresistible Sexual Temptation
—T.K
COUNSELLOR:
Dear T.K,
Reading from you really gladdened my heart because you really want to please God and His Word.
This present challenge is not from the devil neither is it an affliction but a self-made.
In every love relationship; regardless of whether you are a believer or an unbeliever, there will always be an emotional attraction which may lead to sexual temptation especially If you don’t put a boundary.
Do you always meet in a room or a secluded place?
Do you always hold hands, touch, hug and kiss whenever you are together? If your answer is yes, then you are the one creating the problem.
You can stop igniting your sexual desire by :
-Not meeting in a secluded place. Once you are in a room without a third-party, it become easier for you to touch and hug which is a springboard to sexual temptation. Arrange your meetings for places like church, camp ground or eateries.
-Avoid prolonged holding of hands. A brief handshake is good
-Avoid hugging for now because the body of a lady is sensitive to touch
Always pray for grace to wait till your wedding night before sex
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So much as I cherish and appreciate the open mindedness of T. K, i presume that they both love the Lord as he said
The counsellor has done justice to the situation.
A lady recently cried out to me that they have had abortions thrice in there relationship. I was held spellbond because they are both ministers though at diff ministries. She told me this with tears and regrets When I saw some of the pics they took together at places like eateries, shoprite, beaches even in the brother’s house. Seen d pictures of unacceptable poses like sitting on his laps, or the bro carrying her up. Holding her hand for a ‘love walk’ and licking ice-cream, wearing same clothes etc. Eventually d brother left her and would never wants to see me. Please, when your relationship is coming too close nature will ask for its gratification.
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