20 WAYS TO AFFAIR-PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE
20 WAYS TO AFFAIR-PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE
By Bisi Adewale
Affair-proofing your marriage is a very good thing to always do in order to prevent your spouse from the claws of strange people looking for marriage they will feed on so as to destroy the peace and harmony in the home. It is always good in marriage to know that if care is not taken with utmost determination to stay faithful to one’s spouse, anybody can misbehave in marriage. This is not gender specific but carelessness and lack of contentment which results from greediness can lead to unfaithfulness in marriage. You should wait till your union begins to experience trouble before you take caution.
To ‘’affair-proof’’ your marriage means you behave in such a way that you prevent your spouse from having affairs.
- Satisfy your spouse‘s sexual desire.
- Build a loving and intimate marriage.
- Be creative in the bedroom.
- Appreciate and commend. Men gravitate towards people that meet their emotional needs.
- Cook good food. Strange women are fond of snatching husbands through food.
- Take good care of your body. Look nice, dress nice, smell nice. Let your spouse desire you always.
- Never allow any crisis to linger; settle your differences.
- Provide adequately for your wife; men do use money to entice women.
- Forgive generously.
- Avoid nagging.
- Make the home conducive for your husband.
- Be a positive partner always.
- Be romantic. Send love text messages, love letters and calls just to say “I love you”.
- Dress very well; avoid colour riot or despicable dressing. Take good care of your hair as well.
- Observe daily hygiene.
- Be friendly, approachable, reliable, dependable and homely.
- Never take your spouse for granted; give adequate attention.
- Avoid employing mature house help.
- Make sure your house-help stays in a room; letting her sleep in the living room is wrong.
- Look attractive as a woman and don’t nag
20 WAYS TO AFFAIR-PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE
20 WAYS TO AFFAIR-PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE
