Husband what You Must Be
As a man, you are not permitted to just be the husband of your wife, you must be something more than that; you must not be what is known as “traditional husband” doing traditional duties of men, rather you must be an extraordinary husband, affecting lives and souls for God, you must be:
1.A father. You must be a father to your wife and children, you must handle your wife with care as if she is your first daughter, you must not expose her to assault from anybody.
2.A Provider. You must be ready to provide for the needs of your family, you must ladder to make them comfortable
3.A good Leader. You are the head of your family, you are not permitted to be the “headache” you should be a good leader, you should lead, don’t rule, you should love. Don’t Lord, lead in love, be somebody your wife will love to follow.
4.Be a Giver. Be a giver, give gift, bless your family be generous make your wife happy.
5.Stabilizer. Stabilize your home, be a stabilizer, be a pillar of support for your wife, don’t be move by elements around you, but the moved by the Holy Spirit.
6.Be a Lover. The best thing you can be for your wife is to be her lover boy, yes, don’t just be her husband be her lover boy. Be her lover, be intoxicated with her love, no matter the age of your marriage.
7.Be Minister. Minister to the needs of your family, both physically and spiritually, don’t be a monster, be a minister, defend and protect, be the gate keeper of the family raising the banner over your people
8.Be a Priest. Yes. Represent your family before God, present them before the throne of mercy. See to the spiritual well-being of your home. You should be the ‘resident pastor’, you should make the family altar strong, vibrant and consistent. You should find time for Bible study of course you should be the Christ tutor. All your children must be led to God at tender age.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on email@example.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale