HOW TO IDENTIFY A DIFFICULT HUSBAND
-Bisi Adewale
HOW TO IDENTIFY A DIFFICULT HUSBAN
HOW TO IDENTIFY A DIFFICULT HUSBAND- Are you a difficult husband? “No,am not” You can’t be too sure until you have read this article.
The following are signs that you are a difficult husband and your wife is really enduring you, she is dying on the inside:
she needs to pray and fast before collecting anything from you.
She can’t influence your decisions.
Your word is a law to be obeyed either it is convenient or not
You are too hard and too harsh on her
She will never pray that her Daughter marry a Man like you.
You are obstinate, and full of self-knowledge.
She need to send your family,friends,parents,siblings or your Children to plead on her behalf to get what she needs from you.
You don’t want her family around you
You are abusive physically,mentally,emotionally,sexually or financially
You are a commander- in- Chief of family forces.
You reject food when you are angry with her
You report her to all Dick and Harry
You beat your wife
You make her cry daily.
You come back home anytime you like
She can’t predict your movement
You shout at home when angry
You don’t forgive
You often refers to old issues
You rejoice when you see her crying
You keep a room to yourself which she is not allowed to enter without your permission
You get angry easily and can be so wicked and brutal when you are angry
You Nags
You can never be wrong
You drink alcohol
You are a night crawler
You have a caustic mouth
You are on drug
You womanize freely flaunting your girlfriends before her
You collect her Salary and denied her access to her hard earned money
You don’t allow her to work so that you can have financial control over her
You are overtly controlling
You are totally indifferent to her emotional needs
You treat her like a slave
You have no regard for her
You do not have any regard for her parents
You are too unpredictable
You don’t demonstrate love to her at all.
If you demonstrate at least three of these attitude in your marriage,you are a difficult husband. You will need to repent and change lest you live a difficult life in your old age
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
