9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
-By Oba Samuel
Love can get sour at a stage in marriage where your husband is no longer dying for your love. You noticed that the flow is no longer there and you can’t feel the butterfly again. But one thing is certain; love don’t die suddenly, it dies gradually. This article is to open your eyes to signs that your husband is losing his love for you and what to do to bounce back into love:9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
- Spend More Time Out-Most times when a man is no longer in love with his wife, he tends to spend more time outside his matrimonial home. He prefers to hang out with his friends or colleague. Many will stay late night before coming home working extra hours in the office, going to night clubs .During the weekends, he prefer to watch the game outside than staying at home with his wife .9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
- Gets Unusually Cold-One of the major sign of true love is excitement. When a man is in love with his wife, he is always happy to see her and be together but if you notice that he is always cold whenever he is at home, answers all your question with a yes/no or one-liner, that means; he love for you is dying..9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
- Doesn’t Remember Your Special Day-No gift: If you notice that unlike before, he now forget your special days such as your birthday and wedding anniversary. When you complain; all keep saying is that he has many things to think about. Since he does not remember the day, buying a gift for is out of it. 9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
4.Prefer To Take Only The Children Out-When you noticed that at every given time for an outing to parks or vacation, prefer going with the children while he look an excuse to keep you out of the fun.9 Ways To Know Your Husband Is Losing His Love For You
- Doesn’t Play With You-Playfulness is an hallmark of a couple in love. If he no longer play with you and always keep to himself, it’s a sign that love is reducing.
- Doesn’t Get Touched By Your Feelings/Concerns-Love in marriage is too heart beating together as one. Feeling the feelings of your spouse is demonstrated by deep concern for what touches her. But when he is becoming indifferent to what affects you; then the love is going sour.
- Sleep In Different Bedroom-In the atmosphere of genuine love, lovers are not separated by bed because it’s fun sleeping together. If you noticed that he has moved into the other room sleeping alone and only comes to you when he is in need of sex, it’s a big sign of emotional distance.
- He blame You For Everything-When you noticed that he has become an ombudsman. That is he complains about everything you do and blame you for everything that goes wrong at home and his private life. Be aware of the fact that erosion of love has set-in.
- Stonewall-When your husband is stonewalling, avoiding you even when you are under the same roof. He just want to keep to himself without raising any issue against you. Don’t all is well, its pointing to the fact that he is no more in love with you.
When you notice all the above points, Look for a better time to discuss, ask for what you have done wrong and get committed to bring love alive in your marriage. It may require you see a counselor; please, don’t hesitate.
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Oba Samuel is a marriage and family counsellor.Connect me on Twitter@PastorOba