12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
-Bisi Adewale
12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
Men are principal factor in marriage, majority of things that happen in marriage bolts down to what men do and what they fail to do. 12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
However, there are mistakes man make that breaks comradeship in marriage. These mistakes destroy marriage without announcement
- Taking your wife for granted. What an error for a man be to be taking his wife for granted! Taking your wife for granted is an indication that you don’t value her. If you insult or rebuke your wife in the public, if you don’t pick her calls, if you give her open rebuke, if you walk out on her as she talks to you, if she can’t play with you, if you shout her down whenever she want to air her views on family issues, it means you are taking her for granted. If you take your wife for granted, your marriage will be grounded.12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
- Women are of diverse stature, height, colour and characters. So, it is a wrong thing for a man to be comparing his wife to any other woman because there’s no perfect woman anymore. Every woman has their own strength and weakness; all you need to look for the strength of your wife and concentrate on it. Unfortunately, many women you think better than your wife have their own weaknesses that their husband too is complaining about. Accept your wife; stop comparing her to any other woman. Comparison in marriage repels while acceptance build intimacy. 12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
- Not giving attention. You need attention to fire love in marriage. Attention is to marriage just as engine oil is to a car. You cannot make a woman feel loved when you don’t have time for her. If you can’t give your wife the attention she needed, there will be tension in that marriage. Beware of other things like job/ministry, T.V, laptop, I-pad, among others that steal your time. Money and other materials things cannot replace you, you delegate your presence, you just have to create time for your wife deliberately. Don’t let her get to the point of depression. Create time for her daily despite your busy scheduled. You promised to be there for her always during courtship; be a promise keeper.
- Lack of appreciation. Lack of appreciation normally bring depreciation to love in marriage and several men are guilty of this. The mistake most men make here is that, they see anything done by their wives as a duty and so it needs no appreciation. This is very wrong. Your wife is not a slave, don’t treat her as one. Cultivate the habit of appreciating her when she cook, wash your clothes, take care of the children. Don’t overlook any good things done by your wife, give generous appreciation. 12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
- Sleeping in different room. Real marriage is a unifying factor, not a divide and rule. Husband and wife should be closely knitted that they become inseparable; not being separated by the bedroom. Sleeping in different room is an indication that you have not left your single life behind you. Husband should sleep in the same room and on the same bed with their wife, unity breed togetherness. As a man, are you living in a separate room? Move into the same room and on the same bed with your spouse.12 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE .Part 2
- It is so saddening that the lying attitude of some men has made the large percent of women conclude that men are not to be trusted. I want all men to get acquit to this fact; lie does not have infinity life span Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of: Secret of an Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
