12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
-Bisi Adewale
12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
When a marriage is sick,it needs to be healed. A marriage can become sick when it lacks natural and supernatural nutrients to make it work.
7) EXPLANATION: At times you just need to sit down to talk and explain to each other, that may just be the answer, the problem may just be communication gap that needs to be blocked. So go ahead explain things to each other. 12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
Ecclesiastes 7:25 KJV
I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things…………………………………………
8) APOLOGY: Apology may be needed,like I said if you are the offended partner find it easy to apologize,that does not reduce you,it rather shows you are mature,wise and strong. 12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
Psalm 38:18 KJV
For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin.
Matthew 11:6 KJV
And blessed is he , whosoever shall not be offended in me.
9) AVOID THIRD PARTIES: No matter the level of misunderstanding in your marriage,never involve third parties.this may be your friends,parents,family members,Siblings,neighbors,Children,colleague etc or anybody that is biased,will not say the truth or will take side with one of you.
Please, don’t look for anybody that will take side or judge but somebody that will be able to tell you the truth without destroying your marriage. 12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
James 2:4 KJV
Are ye not then partial in yourselves, and are become judges of evil thoughts?
10) INVOLVE DIVINE PARTIES: If you find out that you can not solve the problem yourself don’t allow it to linger, don’t pretend the problem never exist,it does. Don’t think time will wash it away,it may not not,it may even make it worse. So, go out to look for a DIVINE PARTY not a THIRD PARTY .A divine party is a trained counsellor,a pastor,a pastor’s wife or an elderly Christian who will tell both of you the truth and put you through to solve your problem without taking sides. Please your family members or Friends are not part of divine parties they are already bias,by their affiliation with you,they can not speak the truth.12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
Proverbs 24:6 KJV
For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors there is safety.
11) PRAY: don’t fail to take your case to God in time of crisis,God is the ultimate peace maker, He is Jehovah Shalom.
Ephesians 2:14 KJV
For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us.
12) MAKE LOVE: Don’t withhold sex from each other because of misunderstanding,there is a way sex help you to come back to intimacy level to solve your problem yourself,don’t shut the bedroom because you are angry with your spouse.
Proverbs 5:18-19 KJV
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. 12 HIDDEN HEALERS OF MARRIAGE.Part 2
