11 reasons why you are still single part2

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11 reasons why you are still single part2

By:Bode Akinola

11 reasons why you are still single part2
1.s*x HAS BEEN YOUR DOWNFALL
I personally believe it is best to wait, but the reality is that most of us have or will engage in s*x before we are married. s*x WILL NOT KEEP A MAN! As a woman if you chose to do that, then understand that your “skills” or lack thereof will impact a man’s willingness to make you his woman not his wife. We have millions of women out there.
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2. YOU HAVE BEEN HURT
Many single women reading this remain single or in dead-end relationships because you have been hurt in your past. This hurt will block the blessings you deserve to receive. I understand how difficult it can be to move on from these things, but if you are ever to move in the right direction as well as into a new healthy relationship, you must begin with forgiveness. Start the process of letting the pain go and watch how things improve.
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3. YOU KEEP ENTERTAINING THE “WRONG GUY”
You know he isn’t the one for you yet you continue to entertain this man and his nonsense. He isn’t even giving you a full commitment but yet you are giving him all the benefits of a real relationship. How do you expect to ever find the “right guy”.
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4. YOU’RE TOO BUSY ENJOYING THE “SINGLE LIFE”
You’re just having too much fun living it up. Maybe you like to come and go as you please. Maybe you enjoy the free meals, outings, and for some, the bills that get paid from your “guy friends”. If those are your reasons, I get it, but just make sure that you aren’t using that as a front. Many women claim to love the “single life” but in a heartbeat they would trade it in for a genuine relationship.
11 reasons why you are still single part2
5. YOU HAVEN’T MET RIGHT GUY.
Shout out to the ladies that don’t settle. Shout out to the ladies that understand that if he isn’t the right guy for you, then forcing a relationship is pointless. The reality is, just because you meet a “good guy” that doesn’t mean he is the “right guy”. Continue to be patient, but make sure that the reason you haven’t met him isn’t due to unfair requirements you have set. If “that guy” is defined by his job, car, income bracket, and things of that nature then good luck with that. Those things make finding him harder, and personally I think you should focus on finding a man you connect with. Without that connection, “that guy” will easily become “that ex” in due time.

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6. YOU ARE WAITING ON GOD
There are many women who say they are just going to trust GOD and let him bring them a man. That is great, but there is a slight problem with that. Many of those same women take an approach of not doing anything to facilitate the process. They wait on GOD to deliver a man as if they are waiting on a shipment from FedEx. Because if you are not the woman you need to be then you may find yourself waiting, and waiting, and waiting. Not because GOD can’t do his part, but because you haven’t truly tapped into doing your part.