11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
By: Bisi Adewale
11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
If the following things are not available, please don’t go and propose to that lady and even if you are presently engaged please reconsider your decision except if the following are present. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
(6) Passion – This refers to those strong romantic feelings which you have towards no one but someone you intend to marry. It is just amazing the kind of attraction that exist between a man and a woman. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
Passion adds zest to your relationship. You think about the person all the time. You desire him/her. It is passion that makes a woman to leave her family to dwell with a man that is almost unknown to her for the rest of her life. God never want you to marry anybody that resent you or the person you resent. If God want you to marry anybody, He will make sure He put his/her love into your heart. Never marry somebody you are not attracted to in any way. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
(7) Respect- No matter how close you are to the person you intend to marry, there still suppose to be element of respect between both of you, never marry somebody you didn’t respect or somebody that did not respect you. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
(8) Compatibility- How compatible are you with that fellow/lady you intend to marry? If you are compatible, agreement will be easy. If you disagree on virtually every issue, please watch it. What is your believe about money, Christian dressing, drug, family planning, child rearing, place to live, number of children, Christian worship, recreation, job, sport, friendship, marriage etc and his/her. Please if you have diverging view on virtually every issue advise you not to go into that relationship and if you are in it, you better reconsider your step before you create an eternal problem for yourself. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
(9) Faithfulness/Truthfulness. How faithful is your intending partner? If he/she is the type that tell lie very easily, please watch out, for this is a danger signal. If you lay the foundation of your home on falsehood, you may live to regret it, there is this adage in my proverb that states that if you build your house with the brick of Saliva, it is dew that will destroy it (Ile ti afi ito mo, iri ni yoo wo). If that fellow/lady is not faithful, please never go ahead to count your destiny into his/her hands. (Proverb 25: 19, 12: 19- 20,22).
(10) Fear of God -Do your intending partner fear God? I f he/she do not fear God there is likelihood that he/she will maltreat you. There is possibility of him/her leading you into sin sooner or later. If you commit your future into the hand of somebody that hates your God you put it in danger. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
My advice for you is, take a closer look at that person that professes to love you. If you discover he/she didn’t love or fear God, make a U-turn now before it is too late. 11 Things To Consider Before You Go Into Relationship part2
(11) Vision- If the person you want to marry is visionless; please don’t marry him/her. Never marry an NFA (No Future Ambition). Anybody who didn’t have a vision didn’t have a future, why will you count your tomorrow into the hand of somebody that didn’t have future.
