Most men lose relevance in the heart of their wives; love dries up, romance does leave, making the marriage dull and drab. When a marriage gets to this state sex becomes a burden, the wife begins to use all excuses to avoid it, making marriage more difficult. Here I want to discuss with you how to melt the heart of your wife continually and enjoy great marriage and sizzling romance all the days of your life.
1. SHOW HER AFFECTION IN THE PUBLIC: To get into the heart of your spouse, demonstrate love to her through public display of affection. Walk hand-in-hand with her in the public, wink at her in the public, tell people around you that your wife is the best and the most beautiful. This will make feel loved(Ephesians 5:25).
2. SPEND TIME WITH HER: Time is the raw material for building intimacy. To be closely knitted to your wife,you must not be too busy to spend time with her. Include her in your to-do; you can’t delegate it. Spend time together talkingand playing,eating,visiting parks together. Have your bath together and many more.I am busy to a woman means that ‘I don’t matter to you‘.If she is truly matter to you,create time for her (Song of Solomon 7: 11).
3. COME HOME WITH GIFTS FOR HER: Love and gifts go together like a Siamese twin. One major way to demonstrate love to your wife is by giving gifts to her. Most men make the mistake of buying gifts for their children when coming back home neglecting the wife.This is totally wrong.Your wife too deserves gifts.Wheneveryou are coming back home,get gifts for your children but buy better gifts for your wife.Do this continually and it will surprise you how your wife will respond to you(Ephesians 4:32).
4.TAKE GOOD CARE OF HER PARENTS: Every woman has a soft spot for her parents. That is why we find women taking care of their aged parentsmore than men do. Women are more humane and passionate about their parents. Men, don’t just focus on your own parents, take care of your wives’ parents too and you will occupy a very important place in her heart. Your wife may not talk about it,yet shesecretly longs for it(Deuteronomy 5: 16).
5.SHOES,BAGS AND CLOTHES ARE SURE BANKER: Women’s love for shoes,bags and clothes are incurable.They can’t stop shopping for more no matter the number they already have at home. You will create an easy access into their heart by buying shoes,bags and clothes for them in a surprise way.Don’t wait for your wife to demand for them,get to know her size,colour and favourite designer.Get involved in the women’s world to really know more about their needs and where to get them.A woman you surprise often with these gifts will willingly offer her body to you(1Timothy 5:8).
6.HELP HER IN THE KITCHEN: Kitchen is the lifetime office of every woman. They are so concerned about what happens in it no matter their age and any man that gives them a helping hand in this their cherished office will win their hearts. Unfortunately, most men hate the kitchen but love the dining table.Instead of helping their wives, most husbands will stay in the living room watching T.V,getting busy with laptops,i-Pad and newspaper.If you really want your wife to be available for you,help her in the kitchen. Let romance starts from there and you will be surprised how she will pay you in kind(Romans 11:22).
7.PROVIDE FOR HER: You cannot touch the heart of a woman you cannot provide for. Provision is God’s allotted responsibility for man.This is the reason why wives always look up to their husbands for provision no matter how rich theyare personally.A woman you can’t provide for will have no respect for you and she will shut down emotionally towards you.Don’t be stingy;give her money for her upkeep,feeding,house rents,children’s school fees and books.Meet her needs and she will meet your physical and emotional needs(1Timothy 5:8).
8. HELP HER TO CARRY HER CHILDREN: Every woman has the secret longing for a husband who will assist her in carrying her baby. It is burdensome to her to be the only one to carry the baby, feed, change the diapers and bathe the baby while the man will be in the living room doing nothing. Don’t just be a husband,help her to carry the children,be a nursing father(Psalm 103: 13).
