STUPID THING TO DO IN A RELATIONSHIP

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By Bisi Oludare

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After being with him for over 3years, he sent a message to me saying he didn’t feel we can go on again because the closer the dearer.

Fola works as the human resources head of an oil company in PortHarcourt where she earns a very good money. She has a fiance staying in Lagos whom she loves so much but their challenge has always been the distance. The guy always complain of how lonely he is and what not seeing her often is doing to him. In order to keep the ‘fire’ of their love burning, they had to find a solution. The only solution according to Fola was what the guy suggested- that she should be sending her nude pictures. “He said seeing me like that will calm him down and that will be an assurance that I still love him and I’m not giving my body to anybody in PortHarcourt.”
I rebuffed at first but had to agree to what he said because he threatened to cut the relationship off if I disagree…

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Let me stop there, sure you know the end of that story.
One of the greatest disservice you can do to yourself all in the name of ‘I love him’ is to be shamefully sending him your nudes.STUPID THING TO DO IN A RELATIONSHIP
SENDING NUDE PICTURES is one stupid thing that is on the increase amidst single ladies who are consumed by foolishness they call love.
There is no how you will send your nude to any sane guy and he will still want to marry you. Reason is simple, if you can send it to him, you can send it to anybody.
Listen, men are not foolish, if he truly loves you, he will love that you keep that treasure for him till you get married.
There is a lot of dangers in sending nudes but we will mention few here.STUPID THING TO DO IN A RELATIONSHIP

1. It reduces the level of trust he has for you to nothing
2. It turns you to an automatic cheat
3. It portrays you as a loose person
4. It shows you are cheap
5. It reduces your value as a lady. This is one of the worst thing it can earn you, reducing your value to nothing because a lady that holds her value very high will never agree to such let alone doing it.

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Sending nudes to a guy doesn’t mean he will or will not marry you, reality is, a guy that truly loves you will not ask for your nudes in the first place.
So, as a lady, keep all your treasures for the man God has ordained for you.
Don’t turn yourself to a bad market with no price attached to it. Stop selling yourself cheap.
Remember, your price is far above rubies and it takes a godly man to search you out in Holy Matrimony.
There is dignity in delaying gratification to get the best.STUPID THING TO DO IN A RELATIONSHIP
A MAN THAT HAS NOT PAID YOUR BRIDE PRICE DOESN’T HAVE ACCESS TO YOUR BRIDE PRIDE(YOUR PRIVATE TREASURES).
Those things are your honour. Guard them jealously.
If you have been sending your nudes, it’s high time you stopped.
If any guy ask for it, RUN, RUN & RUN. Let him know you are not a pornography star.

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2 COMMENTS

  1. I love this teaching,It will surely help the singles and those in relationship if they will listen and repent.
    This is really going on among those who are in relationship even among the singles, the guy will tell them to send their nude so that he will know how beautiful she looks and whether to continue with her or not. As a lady that is anxious, she can’t wait anymore, she will send it. Even if they met in social media.Hmmm, this is bad.
    But thank you for this teaching.

  2. Thanks for all your teachings about relationships and marriages God bless you and your ministry.

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