Singled Out For Testimony Marriage
-Bisi Adewale
“Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?”
Ruth 3:1 KJV
Everyone dream of being singled out for testimony marriage at the inception but it is not a general commodity because many that desires it often fail to do what is truly required to experience it which is what this article is all about.
TYPES OF MARRIAGE
- TURBULENT MARRIAGE
- TENSION MARRIAGE
- TESTIMONY MARRIAGE
WHAT A TESTIMONY MARRIAGE IS:
-A PLACE OF REST
“Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?”
Ruth 3:1 KJV
-A PLACE OF JOY
“Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.”
Ecclesiastes 9:9 KJV
-A PEACEABLE HABITATION
“And my people shall dwell in a peaceable habitation, and in sure dwellings, and in quiet resting places;”
Isaiah 32:18
HOW TO BE SINGLE OUT FOR A TESTIMONY MARRIAGE
To be singled out for a testimony Marriage, do the following:
- DEVELOP A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. I am the vine, ye are the branches. He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit; for without me ye can do nothing.”
??John? ?15:5? ?KJVA?
2. BUILD SOLID FOUNDATION
TYPES OF FOUNDATION
- Wrong Foundation: Money, wealth, Position in Church, Beauty, Unbelievers, Election, Selection, Infatuation, Sex.
- Shaky foundation: Haste, marrying somebody you don’t know, failure to attend premarital training, failure to get counsel.
- SOLID FOUNDATION: “For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.”
??1 Corinthians? ?3:11? ?KJVA??
TWO FOUNDATIONS TO BASE YOUR MARRIAGE
*Principles of Jesus: Prayer, Patience, Counsel, Pure Courtship, glorious wedding.
*Direction of Holy Ghost: Being led by the Holy Spirit at every stage will protect you from error
2. ADEQUATE PREPARATION
The preparations of the heart in man and the answer of the tongue is from the Lord.”
??Proverbs? ?16:1? ?KJVA??
Prepare for Marriage, not just for the wedding.
- Don’t go into marriage with Boys’ attitude, spirit and wisdom. Become a Man
- Don’t go into marriage with Girl or women’s attitude, spirit and wisdom. Become a Wife.
- Read quality books, attend marriage seminars
- Attend marriage schools and premarital training.
- AREAS OF PREPARATION
Spiritual preparation
Physical Preparation
Domestic preparation
3. SELF CONSTRUCTION
Build up yourself to become a better person.
Develop a positive mental attitude
Develop Godly Character
Singled Out For Testimony Marriage
