Identifying Strange Women in Your Marriage Pt 1
TYPES OF STRANGE WOMEN
You need to be aware of the different kinds of “other women” that exist, so as to know how to protect your own husband from them because the strategies of handling them are not the same
1. Unknown other women. These ones are the most difficult to handle among strange women. There’s no definite strategy in handling this situation as she may be in a different town. She may be someone your husband met on the Internet, during his vacation, at a business seminar or training. She might even be someone close to you.
The only thing you can do to protect your husband from this kind of woman is to pray, build a good home, satisfy your husband sexually, and be a good wife. After you must have done these, leave the rest to God and continue to trust your husband until you have tangible reasons not to do so
2. Deceived strange women. This kind of women may have innocently involved themselves in an affair with your husband thinking he’s still single. This often occurs when the marriage is still young and he refuses to see himself as a married man. He lives like a Casanova; deceiving many with his sugar-coated tongue. If this is the case, it is better for the wife to inform the deceived lady that the man is married with kids. This should be done politely and with all wisdom.
It is also necessary to visit your husband’s place of work, be friendly to his colleagues, so they can bear in mind that he is a married man and treat him as such.
Also, encourage your husband to always wear his wedding ring. The reason some men don’t wear their wedding rings, identify with their wives in public is simply to deceive other women so as to be engaged in illicit affairs with them
3. Desperate other woman. These are also difficult to handle. They are aware that the man is married but still want to have him no matter who is affected. They are ready to do anything to outplay, outshine or outdo the woman at home who may not even know about the existence of the other woman. This kind of women will go extra-mile to achieve their aim. They are ready to give the man sex at its best, prepare sumptuous meals, and go diabolical or commit murder just to ensure they hook the man they want.
To handle this category of women, you need serious prayer, patience and wisdom. If you stress or fight a man who is getting the best from a desperate woman outside, you have just finished that home. He would go ahead to divorce you and marry his mistress. If keeping your marriage is your aim, all you need is to go on your knees and deliver your husband from this strange woman
4. Confrontational other women. Ordinarily, “strange women” help men they have won make the relationship secret. That is why they allow men to come to their houses, meet them in obscure hotels, call discreetly and they avoid visiting the houses of these men. But we have some of them who can be daring and confrontational; they are even ready to fight the wives of their men, some call wives to abuse and harass them. When things get to this level, the wife needs serious prayer, caution and wisdom. There is tendency for the woman at home to go all out to fight her husband. The more she does that, the more the man gets convinced that the other woman is better. Do not play into the hands of the other woman, her strategies is to provoke you so that you can push your husband away thereby giving her the chance to win him over.
Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments.
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