How To Identify Different Kinds Of Strange Women
-By Bisi Adewale
You need to be aware of the different kinds of “other women” that exist, so as to know how to protect your own husband from them because the strategies of handling them are not the same. How To Identify Different Kinds Of Strange Women
1. Unknown other women. These ones are the most difficult to handle among strange women. There’s no
definite strategy in handling this situation as she may be in a different town. She may be someone your husband met on the Internet, during his vacation, at a business seminar or training. She might even be someone close to you.
The only thing you can do to protect your husband from this kind of woman is to pray, build a good home,
satisfy your husband sexually, and be a good wife. After you must have done these, leave the rest to God and
continue to trust your husband until you have tangible reasons not to do so.
2. Deceived strange women. This kind of women may have innocently involved themselves in an affair with your husband thinking he’s still single. This often occurs when the marriage is still young and he refuses to see
himself as a married man. He lives like a Casanova; deceiving many with his sugar-coated tongue. If this is the
case, it is better for the wife to inform the deceived lady that the man is married with kids. This should be done
politely and with all wisdom.
It is also necessary to visit your husband’s place of work, be friendly to his colleagues, so they can bear in
mind that he is a married man and treat him as such.
Also, encourage your husband to always wear his wedding ring. The reason some men don’t wear their
wedding rings, identify with their wives in public is simply to deceive other women so as to be engaged in illicit
affairs with them. How To Identify Different Kinds Of Strange Women
3. Desperate other woman. These are also difficult to handle. They are aware that the man is married but still want to have him no matter who is affected. They are ready to do anything to outplay, outshine or outdo the woman at home who may not even know about the existence of the other woman. This kind of women will go
extra-mile to achieve their aim. They are ready to give the man sex at its best, prepare sumptuous meals, and
go diabolical or commit murder just to ensure they hook the man they want.
To handle this category of women, you need serious prayer, patience and wisdom. If you stress or fight a man
who is getting the best from a desperate woman outside, you have just finished that home. He would go ahead to divorce you and marry his mistress. If keeping your marriage is your aim, all you need is to go on your knees and deliver your husband from this strange woman.
4. Confrontational other women. Ordinarily, “strange women” help men they have won make the relationship secret. That is why they allow men to come to their houses, meet them in obscure hotels, call discreetly and they avoid visiting the houses of these men. But we have some of them who can be daring and confrontational;they are even ready to fight the wives of their men, some call wives to abuse and harass them. When things get to this level, the wife needs serious prayer, caution and wisdom. There is tendency for the woman at home
to go all out to fight her husband. The more she does that, the more the man gets convinced that the other
woman is better. Do not play into the hands of the other woman, her strategies is to provoke you so that you can push your husband away thereby giving her the chance to win him over.
5. Seductive other women. These are women who are all out to seduce men (read proverbs chapter 7).How To Identify Different Kinds Of Strange Women
They achieve this through their sweet words, actions, kindness, dressing, association, etc. You need to continue to
pray for your husband; protect him on your knees; pray to God to reign in his heart and rule in his life.
6. Close – by other women. These are women in the neighbourhood, girls in the church or friends of the wife.
Women should be careful of unnecessary closeness of other women with their husbands. This does not mean
you should be suspicious of every woman who comes near your husband. Nevertheless, you should know the
limit to which you can trust people around you. Encouraging your friends or a young and beautiful girl in the
neighbourhood to stay in your house in the name of helping your husband with the kids while you are away can
be a cheap way to help him start an affair; he never envisaged. How can you go to a party or vigil leaving your
visiting friends alone with your husband at home. Is that trust or foolishness?
7. Day to day other women. These are women men have to meet everyday due to their work or profession.
They can be colleague, customers, clients, patients (to a doctor), contractors, students (to a lecturer/teacher),
counselee, etc. In the case of a colleague in the office, she may even be sharing the same office with the man.
Hence, she spends longer time with the man everyday than his wife; creating closeness and sometimes unholy
intimacy. Office romance is very rampant these days. As the wife, your strongest weapon, which I place
emphasis on is prayers.
Make it a point of duty to visit your husband’s office once in a while. This would serve as a reminder to his
colleagues that he is married. This does not negate the essence of being friendly with them so that they can
even fight to help you protect your marriage in your absence. Also, to overcome the prevalence of day to day
strange women, make the house conducive for your husband.
Most men these days feel more comfortable at work rather than at home. This should not be the case with your
husband. Give him reasons to rush back home to a wonderful wife everyday. Let him be proud of you; love and
always crave to be with you.
8. In-house other women. This can be your house maid, nanny, any girl who stays in your house. It can even be
your own sister. I will place more emphasis on the house maid in subsequent chapters of this book. Let me
warn you against any girl who stays with you. Ensure that everyone dresses well in your house and also
ensure they sleep in their rooms. If you have only one bathroom at home, don’t allow them to spread their
underwears in the bathroom; let them take their underwears to their rooms, by all means; protect your
husband; MEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
