There are four Major keys to a better Marriage,we will be studying them here,they are:
1) SOLID FOUNDATION
Psalm 11:3
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?
— If your foundation is ROUGH your life will be TOUGH
— TERRIBLE foundation is the mother of HORRIBLE marriage
TWO WAYS TO CHOOSE
1) — Your Foundation should be on Christ Jesus
1 Corinthians 3:11
For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
2) — Get adequate information about choosing
WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE
— Choosing Unbelievers
— Choice making Base on Money
— Choice making Base on his place of work,outlook,Dark,Tall,Muscular with Baritone Voice
— Choice making Base on her beauty,Curve,Brazilian hair,pointed nose
RIGHT WAYS TO CHOOSE
— Patience
— Divine Direction
— Love
— Counsel
— Preparation
2) DIRECT CONFRONTATION:
James 4:7 KJV
[7] Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. — Confront the Devil on your marriage.PRAY
— If you wait till when you are in trouble before you pray,you are already in trouble.
— If you give give room to the Devil,He will take the whole House
3) EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION:
Your communication must not be negative
Ephesians 4:29 KJV
[29] Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
“I hate you”
“You are a witch”
“I curse the day I met you”
“You are a bad market”
MUST BE POSITIVE
Ephesians 5:19 KJV
[19] Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;
Say:
“Thank you”
“I am sorry”
“It is well”
“God bless you”
“I love you”
4) TOTAL COOPERATION: Psalm 133:1 KJV
[1] Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.
Cooperate with God for a better home
Cooperate with your spouse
Marriage is a team work you can do it alone
— It is a Union,there is no “I” in union
— You can only be stronger together
— If you want to go FAST go alone,if you want to go FAR,go together.
— Don’t just join your hands,join your hearts together
— Do things together,talk together,play together,pray together,plan together,pray together that is Marriage
