HELP YOUR SPOUSE TO SUCCEED, RECOGNIZE YOUR SPOUSE’S ROLES IN YOUR SUCCESS
By Bisi Adewale
It is good to note that you couldn’t have gone this far without God and your Spouse. Many are in the Valley today because they decided to go alone or partner with wrong People that destroy their Visions and Purpose.
Always do everything to help your Spouse Succeed by all means, push each other to greatness, defending each other, help each other, live for each other and succeed together. If you fail, help each other to rise again. Be a balm in the pain of your Spouse not Salt in the injury.
Never think you got to this place alone, no, recognize the roles of your Spouse, celebrate him or her for it, celebrate your Spouse.
Many successful people have discussed the importance of their Spouses in their lives and the blessings of having their spouses by their sides throughout their career trajectory. Former president Barack Obama kept talking about the roles of his Wife, he attributes his political success to his wife.
“Obviously I couldn’t have done anything that I’ve done without Michelle,” Obama said in 2011. “You were asking earlier what keeps me sane, what keeps me balanced, what allows me to deal with the pressure. It is this young lady right here… Not only has she been a great first lady, she is just my rock. I count on her in so many ways every single day.”
Despite his wealth, fame, Power and connections Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg noted the vital role his wife Priscilla Chan plays in his life in 2017 Harvard Commencement speech. The tech guru says Chan inspired him to volunteer his time and take on social work.
“Priscilla’s the most important person in my life so you can say, it’s the most important thing I built in my time here,” he says in the speech.
Of course, it’s not just women supporting their husbands. In a 2013 interview with Winfrey, Beyoncé says that her husband, rapper and mogul Jay-Z, is extremely supportive and helps her “on so many levels.”
“I would not be the woman I am if I did not go home to that man,” says the Grammy winning artist. “It just gives me such a foundation.”
Nigeria Music Minister, Tope Alabi spoke glowingly about the roles of her Husband in her life and Ministry. During our Program, Lagos Singles and Married’ summit at the National Stadium Surulere Lagos in October 2019, she spoke to the Mammoth crowd about how Soji Her Husband brought her to this level and help her grow and Nurture her to become a World class Music star.
on a Personal note, It will be foolish of me to think that I become whosoever I am today without the exceptional contribution of my Wife, not at all, Olori Yomi Adewale has been the Pillar behind the Wall, the stone in the Foundation and the Beam of the roof. She is everything I am not, brining a balance into my life and Ministry, encouraging me to face the Monsters and fight the Bulls of life. From her support when I was writing and Publishing my first book in 1999 till today when the Books has provided more than 100 titles, her foot print is in all. Her Sacrifices, loyalty, selflessness, commitment, support and doggedness has been without comparison.
She had helped me succeed and she is still supporting me in Prayer, finance, emotional support and of course the other room, she has been an Angel wearing Skirt and Blouse.
Dear Wife, Emulate this Woman of Faith, make your Husband succeed, if your Husband do not succeed in your hands, People will call you a witch, Nobody will call the Wife of a Billionaire a Witch, No, they will call her Madam, stand by your Husband to succeed. Pray your Husband to success.
Husband, acknowledge the roles of your Wife in your life, when you rise up don’t abandon her, never forget the finger that fed you, never abandon the Ladder by wish you climb up, you may need it on your way down.
?Bisi Adewale
