6 Ways to Position Yourself For Timely Marriage
6 Ways to Position Yourself For Timely Marriage
By Oba Samuel
Do you want to get married on time? The following points may be a flight that will take you there:
1. Prayer: Nothing good comes easy and since marriage is a good thing, you need to take it
serious on the altar of prayer. Majority of people do not bother to pray about their marital life
until they are ripe for marriage. It is better you start praying early enough before you are
ready for marriage. If you discover that many people in your family married late, then it is
better you start breaking the curse of marital delay in your life.
2. Forgiveness: If you want God to swing into action concerning your marital life, you have
to forgive people who have offended you in the past. Most times those experiencing marital
delay are keeping grudges against people that jilted them in the past. Until you forgive, your
heavenly father will not answer you and the devil is still empowered by your unforgiving
spirit to place embargo on your marriage.
3. Be Friendly: If you are really in need of an husband or a wife, then make yourself friendly.
If you are the type that is hostile to people, nobody will want you for a suitor. Be
approachable; stop hindering yourself from getting married on time. Marriage is friendship.
Learn to make and keep friends.
4. Do not be Choosy: It has been discovered that some of the people experiencing marital
delay now actually caused it due to their attitude of being too choosy when they are at the
prime of their age. Discard all your list of standard; do not major on physical appearance or
material things. His future glory may be hidden now, it takes a spiritually minded person to
discover it.
5. Right Location: Always endeavour to be in the right location and in the right company.
You cannot be searching for a partner in the midst of the married. Join the singles forum and
attend their meetings.
6. Build Self-esteem: Develop a mindset that you are somebody who deserved to be admired
and respected. Celebrate your facial look, hair and body structure. Stop looking down on
yourself. Do not allow this emotional weakness push you into marital error
OBA SAMUEL is a family and relationship coach.A seasoned speaker in singles and couples conferences.Happily married to his queen-Oluwakemi;a babe of rare qualities and they are blessed with Tripple G children.Connect me on Twitter @PastorOba .E-mail: obasamuel09@gmail.com
6 Ways to Position Yourself For Timely Marriage
