Help: Am I in a relationship or in a bondage? Please advise me
Hi,
My name is folakemi, a 33-year-old single lady.
I have been dating a guy for nine months now but I don’t know where he lives. We usually meet in eateries, clubs and hotels and each time I ask him to take me to where he lives it brings quarrels between us. Help: Am I in a relationship or in a bondage. Please advise me
Secondly he is also fond of calling me names such as goat, idiot, cricket to mention but a few, and when I reacted he said I lack respect and that I don’t think with my brain but with my mouth. In other words I should not react if he does anything bad to me, he even slapped me recently in public (though he later begged me and promised never to touch me again. I don’t know what else to do as he claims to love me.
As for me I love him with all my heart because I actually got into the relationship just after I broke up with my ex and I used him to get over the hurt feelings.
Now, I seriously don’t know if I should continue with the relationship or quit. I need advice from you.
Please help me
Folakemi”
Dear readers, kindy advise this young lady and also learn from her experience
