Deliberate Parenting
Good parenting is the act of purposely raising a child by setting aside time to train the child, teach the child what to do, things to avoid, how to live his or her life, importance of serving God, how to be useful to themselves, the church of God, the society and still be the best in whatever they lay their hands upon. If you can consciously work your family you will definitely reap the reward. It what it to involve your self in good parenting because the negative impact can not be quantify, it will affect the parents, the family, the church and the society.
Parenting Techniques
1 – Zero Parenting. This is a situation devoid of teachings, trainings, instructions or corrections. A child left to himself will be destroyed.
2 – Haphazard Parenting. This is a form of parenting that is done without focus, planning or purpose. There is no intentional teaching in this kind of parenting.
3 – Bully Parenting. This involves shouting, beating, hurting or terrifying the child into submission. This can never yield positive results as the products on such parenting techniques are rebels instead of children. This method of parenting can also create deep hatred in the heart of the child.
4 – Spineless Parenting. This is the kind of parenting where the parents are not bold enough to discipline the child. They indulge the child as they give him or her whatsoever he or she wants. This kind of parenting is deficient of correction or reprove and will surely produce delinquent children.
5 – Specific Parenting. This is a step ahead of deliberate parenting, which involves teaching a child because of flaws discovered in him.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
Deliberate Parenting
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