9 WRONG WAYS PEOPLE RAISE THEIR CHILDREN
Bisi Adewale
1: BY IGNORANCE: Lots of Parents knows nothing about Parenting, they are clueless.
2: BY INTUITION: they just do anything that come to their Minds or anything they feel is cool and good.
3: BY TRYING AND TESTING: They try to see if it work or try another style.
4: BY FEAR AND ANIETY: They dont know what will happen next, so they are afraid.
5: BY PROXY: They delegate parenting work to School Teachers, Sunday School Teachers, Maid, Lesson Teachers, Grand Mas etc
6: BY VOLATILE EMOTION: Some raise their Children by getting angry every time, since they are clueless, every Mistake or perceive errors of their Children do annoy the greatly
7: BY PARENTAL COPY CAT: They just copy whatever they see elsewhere and force it on their Children.
8: BY SHOUTING: Lots of Mothers are fond of shouting and making lots of noises on their Children, they think this will help their Children obey them.
9: BY VIOLENCE: Lots of Africa Parents are Violent, they think bullying their Children is the best way to raise them.
None of these systems will raise an excellent Child for you, they may even get you i to trouble in future, you may end up raising defiant and stubborn. children.
What you need is Wisdom, yes, Wisdom to handle your. Children and make him or her a proper Child.