8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage

8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage

By: Daniel Rogers

We honor marriage because God honors it. Indeed the whole Trinity testifies that marriage is honorable. 8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage 8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage
God the Father honored it by designing, instituting, regulating and witnessing the first marriage. God defines its nature, its parties and its terms.
Christ honored it by performing his first miracle at a wedding (John 2) and using marriage in quite a few parables. 8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage 8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage
The Holy Spirit honored it by making it a picture of the church in Ephesians 5.
We also honor marriage because God commands it to be honored (Heb 13:4). Here are eight ways we can do this.
8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage 8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage
1. We honor it by praying for it.

Some people will pray for a parking spot but never pray for a wife or a husband. They think it’s too much to ask. Or they’ll pray for their kids to get into college but not that they’d get into a good marriage. By not asking God for marriage for themselves or their loved ones, they are dishonoring marriage and the God who can give it.
8 Ways to Honor Your Marriage
A fund raiser once told me that some wealthy people he knows are actually insulted if he doesn’t ask them for money, or if he asks them for too little. Instead they feel honored that he should ask them and that he should ask them for so much.

Honor God and marriage by asking for happy and fruitful marriages for yourself and for your children. Let it never be said, “You have not, because you ask not.” Or, “You ask not because you value not.”

2. We honor it by seeking partners according to God’s Word.

God has clearly set out that Christians should only marry in the Lord (1 Cor. 7:39) and that there are certain characteristics and qualifications to look for in a wife or husband. We honor God when we comply with the Maker’s instructions for marriage.

3. We honor it by waiting for it.

God has forbidden sexual intimacy before marriage. We’re not permitted an appetizer, not even a sip; that only spoils the feast. Honor marriage by waiting for it.

4. We honor it by entering into it at appropriate ages.

We can dishonor marriage by getting married too young, when there’s little understanding or appreciation of marriage, when one or both parties are too flippant or frivolous about it. But we also dishonor it by delaying too long, by putting it off later and later in life.

8 Ways to Honor Marriage