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9 Uncommon Ways To Win Your Husband

April 28, 2017

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Bisi Adewale

9 Uncommon Ways To Win Your Husband

Beauty alone cannot win and keep your husband to you, you need more than that you need wisdom, you need good and godly character. A Yoruba proverbs states: A woman misplace her character, she says destiny have not bestow upon her a good husband. If all you desire is your husband deep love and attention, then you need to build solid character, good character attracts, bad character repels.

Listed here are 9 uncommon ways to win your husband

“Seest thou a man wise in his own concert? There is more hope of a fool than of him”. Proverbs 26:12. As a wife, you must be humble enough to be taught by your husband. Be willing to learn from him, be his student. Never sound like a teacher even if you know more than him. Listen to him and don’t argue no matter your academic qualifications. Take to corrections and be ready to change. Don’t be stubborn, be teachable and you will become the favourite of your husband.

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you”. Matt. 7:7. Be a prayerful woman. when you sense unpleasant situations in your marriage or unpleasant behavior in your husband; instead of reporting; take it to God in prayers and you will get an amazing result
“Mercy and truth preserve the king and his throne is upholden by mercy”. Proverbs 20:28. No matter the situation you find yourself; tell the truth, stand with the truth and be on the side of truth. Avoid lying, exaggeration and half truth. It will earn you respect from your husband and God will always be on your side.
Trustfulness. “The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her so that he shall have no need of spoil”. Proverbs 31:11. Trustfulness will make your husband believe that someone is honest and will not harmful or cheat. Be trustworthy. If you murder trust, you will lose your place in the heart of your husband.
Obedience (1 Sam. 15:22-23). As a wife, you ought to be obedient by doing what you are told to do by your husband. Obey his instruction, takes to correction and not be stubborn. This will position you in a immovable position in the heart of your husband.
“She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life”. Proverbs 31:12. Be filled with good attitude don’t repay evil for evil. Demonstrate goodness by all means.
“She perceiveth her mechadise in good; her candle goeth not out by night”. Proverbs 31:18. To be dependable means you can be trusted to do what you need or expect. Every man loves a dependable wife. Don’t handle his things with levity; let him see you as indispensable.
Meekness (Galatians 6:23). Meekness is not weakness; it is strength under the control of the Holy Spirit. It takes a meek wife to influence her husband.
“By humility and the fear of the Lord are riches, honour and life”. Proverbs 22:4. Humility is a modest or low opining of one’s importance. To be a noble wife, a woman who will be deeply loved by her husband, you have to be humble; that you need to see less of your own importance but rather add more honour, value, importance to your husband. Allow him to be the chief speaker in your home, appreciate his opinon, let him have the final say, let his decision be final. Make him the head indeed and let him feel it. You may be older, richer or having a better qualification than him, despite all these; humble yourself if you want to get a better treatment from him.