LEVEL OF CARE IN MARRIAGE
LEVEL OF CARE IN MARRIAGE
-Bisi Adewale
The state of your marriage is determined by the level of care you and your spouse are showing to each other.
To C.A.R.E means:
This is what your spouse says about caring
C- Concentrating on me. “Give me your attention, focus on me, don’t abandon me, and don’t reject me”.
A- “Attend to my needs for love, attention, provision, romance, sex, foreplay, protection”
R- Relax with me- “Spend time with me, let’s play together, look at my face, enjoy time with me, let me be your companion and celebrate me.
E. Embrace my uniqueness. Don’t criticize me, don’t compare me with anybody, I am different, don’t condemn me, tell me I am alright, tell me I am a blessing to you, “Tell me I am beautiful, praise me, appreciate my qualities talk less about my weaknesses.
Please respond, answer your spouse, care for your own mate, if you don’t, who will?
How to care for your spouse:
– Spend time with him/her
– Talk to him/her also listen
– Meet physical and emotional needs
– Take time to understand him/her
– Stop complaining
– Show concern
– Nurse him or her in sickness
– Praise him/her for good deed
– Nurture in time of weaknesses
– Encourage in time of trial.
Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert. He is the president of college of marital success. He has authored more than 40 books, a renowned international conference speaker and marriage counselor, the host of T.V program called family booster, and the set man of family booster ministry.
You can get his life changing books and free resources on marriage, relationship and family at https://bisiadewale.com and familybooster@yahoo.com
LEVEL OF CARE IN MARRIAGE
