4 HIDDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE SUCCESS
To have an excellent marriage you must understand four hidden secrets. Failure to handle them well may lead to difficult and problematic marriages.
CHOICE MAKING (CM)
Making a marital choice is very important in the life of any single. If it is not well done, marriage may become a difficult task. That is why the Bible says:
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalms 11:3 KJV)
Experts say choice-making in marriage determines the success of the union up to 20 per cent. When rightly or wrongly done or wisely or foolishly handled, the results are evident in marriage.
PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE (PM)
So Jotham became mighty, because he prepared his ways before the Lord his God (2 Chronicles 27:6 KJV)
The way you prepare for marriage will definitely affect the results you will have. If you are well prepared, it will be well with you in marriage. Marriage is not an instant noodles; it must be well prepared. Even if you desire to marry quickly you must make haste slowly.
MANAGE MARRIAGE (MM)
Managing your marriage is very important. Experts say this determines 50 per cent of your marital success. Choosing rightly is not enough, preparation is not the last but stop, you must go ahead to manage your life, home, job and spouse to ensure a great marital life.
GOD’S MERCY
Choosing according to the wisdom of God is good, preparing very well is commendable and maintaining marriage wisely is needful, but all of them together are not enough to guarantee a successful family life without grace, mercy and favour of God.
It is the mercy and favour of God that leads one into a great marriage not his expertise, beauty or toasting ability of a man.
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord (Proverbs 18:22 KJV)
