10 WAYS TO PREVENT FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF MARRIED MEN
10 WAYS TO PREVENT FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF MARRIED MEN
By Bisi Oludare
One deadly trap any lady can fall into is the trap of a married man. If you fall into this trap as a single lady, it could destroy and truncate your beautiful destiny forever because, in some cases, ignorance is not an excuse and the woman at home who sensed her man is not faithful to her could go to any length to destroy the lady involved with her man. This is why you need to look deeply before accepting any proposal if truly you don’t know he’s married. But if you know and you are trying to play games, you will soon be caught up in your own web. Here are some proved ways on how to prevent falling into the trap of a married man;
- HE PREFERS MEETING YOU IN HOTELS – if he always wants to meet you up or have any discussion in hotels, you need to think twice about it. This shows he doesn’t want to get caught by families and friends.
- TAN LINE OR IMPRESSION ON HIS LEFT RING FINGER – there is no way he will be married and that tan line on that fourth left finger won’t show. Watch out for this as it is a sure evidence he is married
- YOU HAVE THAT FEELING – there is something about lady’s intuition. Once you have that feeling of the possibility he might be married, don’t leave it off as if it’s nothing. That is your sixth sense in action telling you something you need to act on
- YOU HAVENT MET ANY OF HIS RELATIVES – you have been together for months and you have never met any of his relatives or he doesn’t even talk about them? That is another sign he is married. No man will be serious with you and won’t wish you know his people as he wishes to know your people too.
- HE HAS NEVER DISCUSSED WITH YOU ABOUT THE FUTURE – a man that doesn’t talk about a future with you is sure hiding something and that is because he doesn’t have a future with you since there is a family somewhere
- HE IS UNAVAILABLE TO CHAT ONCE IT IS EVENING TIME – that’s just logical. There is no way he will be with his family and still have time for you and this same reason is why he keeps a second phone that he can switch off in the evening so you don’t get to contact him
- NO SOCIALMEDIA PRESENCE – in this age and time a guy is saying to you he doesn’t just like been on any social media and you are not thinking twice? Then, you need serious help. It is either he is there using another name or truly not there so that he won’t have to put his family on display.
- HE IS EVASIVE WHEN CERTAIN TOPICS COME UP – whenever you talk about anything concerning his family, he becomes cold or looks away? That is saying to you that he does not want to talk about them since he hasn’t perfected the lies he will tell you and he doesn’t even know how far you will go with your probing
- STRANGE REASON ON WHY HE CAN’T GO TO CERTAIN PLACES – married men usually do this so that they won’t go to a certain place and see their wife’s friends or even a colleague or their family member. So he has a particular route he can take you to.
- NEVER AVAILABLE WEEKENDS – he gives you reasons why he won’t be available weekends because he is a busy man? Definitely, he is sure busy because he will be at home with his lovely family.
Watch out for all these time tested and proved things to pay attention to in order to know if he is married or not so that you don’t fall into a deadly trap that can hurt your emotion when you eventually get to know he has been using you all these while.
Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.
E-mail: abbeylily@yahoo.com
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10 WAYS TO PREVENT FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF MARRIED MEN
10 WAYS TO PREVENT FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF MARRIED MEN
