WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
-Bisi Adewale
WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)-I have attended to countless number of men in counselling room whose major grouse with their wives is hatred of sex.Many of them wonder why women hate sex so much.
5: LET HER GET WISDOM IN THE RIGHT PLACES: Most married women were taught that sex is bad in the church before marriage; this is through before marriage but nobody reverse this teaching for them as they prepare to get marry that sex is good in marriage. They go into marriage with the mindset that sex is generally bad either in marriage or outside it.This is the root of many sexual denials in marriage.WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
You need to know what your wife learnt before marriage and open her up for godly teaching about sex in marriage. Get good books for her,take her to good marriage programs, ask questions during the program to make her learn better.
6: SHE MAY NEED COUNSEL: She may also need to see a counsellor,this may be necessary as seminar may not really treat her own case.WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
7: LET HER READ OUR BOOKS: I will urgently advise you get these book for her : SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE, HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S LOVE AND ATTENTION,SEXUAL.WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
FULFILMENT IN MARRIAGE. You can get these books at www. Familybooster.com.
8: HELP HER DEAL WITH HER PAST: Was she sexually molested as a child? Was she raped as adult, does she hate men generally, does she have a good relationship with her father,was she circumcised, has she ever watch her father beat her mother, is her mother still with her father or they are divorce ? Was she a virgin till your wedding night? If yes, did you handle her well during the first sexual encounter in your marriage or you hurt her? (Most ladies begin to hate sex from their day one in marriage because they were sexually hurt during the first encounter during their honey moon).WHAT TO DO IF YOUR WIFE HATE SEX(Part 2)
9: TREAT HER WELL: Is she happy with you? If no, she may not enjoy sex with you. Treat her well,treat her like a lady.Stop treating her like a trash.the strongest sex organ in the body of a woman is not the Virgina,it is her mind.FEED HER HEART WITH GOOD THINGS IF YOU WANT TO OPEN HER PANT REGULARLY.
10.HAVE HEART TO HEART DISCUSSION WITH HER: Discuss with her, take her out to a serene place to talk to her.She may have her reasons for behaving the way she is does, listen to her.Let her talk to you,then say your mind in love. It will amaze you the result that will come out of it.
10: SUPPORT HER AT HOME: Give her a helping hands, carry the baby; enter the kitchen to cook when she is breast feeding the baby,help with children’s home-work.By all means, support her at home.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
