10 KEYS FOR RAISING PROPER CHILDREN

  — Bisi Adewale

    These are Ten keys for raising a Child that will give you peace,I call that kind of child a Proper child,you must use all the keys in full if you want to raise children of distinction

1) VISION

“Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”

??Proverbs? ?29:18? ?KJV??

— Have a vision of what you want to see and where you want your Child to be in future.

— work together with your spouse and the Child towards it.

2) MODELING: “Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.

??1 Corinthians? ?11:1? ?KJV??

— Be what you want your Children to be.

— lead them by Example

3) UNITY

“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”

??Psalms? ?133:1? ?

— Proper marriage Relationship is the only one that can raise Proper Children

— Stand together in Unity to raise a Proper Child.

4) KNOWLEDGE:

— Understand parenting by Gender

— Understand Parenting by Age

— Understand Parental responsibility

— Understand Parental Mistakes

— Understand Parental Limitations

5) TRAINING

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs? ?22:6? ?KJV??

— A Child not train up will go down

— Training is a marathon race not a sprint.

6) MONITORING

“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” ??Proverbs? ?29:15? ?KJV??

— Let there be background check always.

— Check their phones

— Check their Rooms

— Check their Friends and friendship

— Check their behavior and attitude

— Check their Language

— Check their School work

— Check their Spiritual life

— Check their bags

7) AVAILABILITY

— If they don’t see you when they are young,you won’t see them when you are Old.

8) COMMUNICATION:

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”

??Ephesians? ?4:29? ?KJV??

— Talk to them,don’t Shout on them.

— As your Children grows you Communication with them must grow and Change.

9) PRAYER

“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.”

??Psalms? ?127:1? ?KJV??

— Your best effort is not enough,bring God into the scene.

— A Child of many prayers can not go astray.

10) DISCIPLINE

“Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.” ??Proverbs? ?23:13? ?KJV??

— Let their be Age- Appropriate discipline

— if you love them too much not to discipline them,they will hate you for it in Future.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale