15 WAYS TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE

15 WAYS TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE

15 WAYS TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Anger is at the root of most destruction. In fact, no marriage can be destroy except at least one person has gotten angry and refuse to forgive. It is a major marriage killer; it has destroyed many lives, companies, families, destinies, etc. We need to know how to deal with anger in marriage.WHAT ANGER IS:

   It is a strange and bitter feeling of displeasure and irritation that makes you to desire to harm, hurt or criticize someone because they have done something you think it is unfair, cruel and offensive to you.

   CAUSES OF ANGER IN MARRIAGE

   Anger is a secondary emotion; it is caused by the following:

   1. When you feel your spouse is mistreating you, either it is true or not anger is the kind of feeling that will come over you.
   2. Unmet expectation. We all have our expectations which can be reasonable and unreasonable when these expectations are not met, they can lead to anger if they are not handled with wisdom (get a copy of my book titled: Hot and Sizzling Marriage to get to know more about expectations and marriage.
   3. Absence of love makes it easier to get angry, because it is only love that can cover multitude of sin.
   4. Lack of patience in marriage will always lead to anger. If we are not patience with your spouse’s weaknesses, mistakes, foolishness, failures, inadequacies, etc we will easily get angry.
   5. Strife is resentment, wisdom and repressed anger. It begins with gossips, backbiting, etc. it do leads to argument, biking, hatred, etc.
   6. Jealousy and envy. When you begin to feel that you are the one that suppose to have what your spouse has; anger is the end result.  Here are ways to reduce anger in your marriage;

   1. Never take each other for granted

2. Keep communication channels open
3. Never use sex as a weapon
4. Appreciate each other generously.
5. Be patience with each other
6. Always remember that your spouse is not perfect.
7. Try as much as possible to meet the needs of each other.
8. Respect each other
9. Don’t ever permit any third party to come between you
10. Recognize your husband as the head of the family.
11. Clarify anything
12. Recognize your wife as the queen of the family
13. you don’t understand with your spouse.
14. Pray together always.
15. Study the Bible together always.
16. Always see your spouse as somebody you are privileged to married.

15 WAYS TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE

15 WAYS TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE