HOW TO BECOME A BLESSING TO YOUR MARRIAGE
HOW TO BECOME A BLESSING TO YOUR MARRIAGE
- Take Responsibility for the State Of Your Marriage: – See the log in your eyes, not the speck in the eyes of your mate. Stop the blame game; say “it is me. Yes, I am the issue. If I change, he or she will change; I have a lot of things to change.”
- Take a Firm Decision to Stop the Downward Spiral of Your Marriage: – Never wait for your spouse to take decisions, you take the lead. The more mature person among you should be the first to do that. Are you? Then go ahead; apologise, break the malice, make a positive move, call for reconciliation, let there be ceasefire and let there be truce. Put the devil to shame.
- Do Everything You Know To Promote Happiness And Well-Being: No matter what, lift your marriage from the state of despair to happiness. Do anything you can do to make your mate a happy man or woman.
- Value Your Mate: Give high value to your mate, and make this known to him or her always. Help your mate to improve his or her self-esteem. Give honour, recognition, respect; communicate your high regards in secret and in public with your words, actions and reactions.
- Give Quality Appreciation: Emotional health and relationship can be destroyed without appreciation. Appreciation make one’s spouse to feel he or she is worth something, has something of value to contribute, and that their work is being recognized. Every human being desires to be appreciated, give it to your spouse. Be generous about it, nothing is too small to be appreciated, make it his or her daily diet; appreciate everything. Do it now! Stop reading this book, close it, then go and appreciate your spouse. Make a call, send a text, be a blessing. Do it now!
- Value Your Time Together: Do everything you can to be together. Avoid the television, phone, computer and avoid the newspaper just to be together.
- Give attention: Never ignore your spouse, give 100% attention; attend to him or her.
- Give Affection: Show love, say it, do it, do not give him or her any reason to doubt whether you love him or her.
- Be a Creative Lover: – Show your love in creative ways, improve your love intelligence, do things to surprise your spouse; this will help to nurture your marriage.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
HOW TO BECOME A BLESSING TO YOUR MARRIAGE
