10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE
By Bisi Oludare
Some men find it difficult to understand their wives and it makes them think they marry wrongly. Truth is, you didn’t marry the wrong person but you have been loving the wrong way. Until you know how to love your wife, you can’t get her full commitment and submission. 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE
Let’s see few ways on how you can love your wife:
- Love her by helping her with house chores, taking care of the children and helping with other things in the house
- Take her out and hold hands with her. Be proud to always walk with her, let her know you enjoy her company
- Say sweet things to her. The way you get her to accept your proposal and you started courting her, increase the tempo. Don’t lose that lover boy aspect of you.
- Show her off. Just like that saying; if you’ve got it, flaunt it. You’ve got the most beautiful woman in the world, so praise her and make her feel on top of the world.
- Call her often, some women see men that call, chat and send message to them as one that loves them truly. So, as you usually bombard her with those messages and calls when you wanted her to accept your proposal, continue to do it even in marriage.
- Don’t just think she knows you love her, say it often. Never end a phone call without saying ‘I LOVE YOU’ 10 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE
- Appreciate, Commend and approve her. Even when she feels she’s not up to it, make her special and raise her self esteem. An average woman battles with the issue of self esteem but if she can get that raise from her husband, nothing from any other person matters again. Protect and shield her from attacks- whether from your family members or friends
- Be her number one fan. Support her with everything you have. Let her success be your success and her failure your failure.
- Love her the way she wants to be loved. That may sound funny, but, it is the truth. Women have a certain way they want to be loved because to them some things men see as love isn’t love to them. Until you can see through to her heart and love her that way, whatever you are doing may not get her to fully accept you. There is nothing wrong in asking her questions because you want to be a better Lover; believe me, she will love and appreciate you for it.
- Above all, Love her as Christ loved the church. That is the best way to love your wife. Give her your totality, shield her from attacks, Love her family, stay faithful, make your shoulder a place of comfort where she can always run to for succour, surrender everything to her and always be there for her.
There is no way you will be doing this and still have a problem with your wife. Try it today!
Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.
E-mail: abbeylily@gmail.com
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