What Singles should not Do Pt 2: Bisi Adewale
(5) Marrying for wrong reasons – If you must marry, marry for the right reason of companionship sexual purity, procreation and because you’re matured for it. But not because you want to escape from your difficult parent, because you want easy access to sex, because you want somebody that will be cooking for you or somebody that will be paying your bill or because all your friends are already married.
(6) Not preparing for marriage – ¬Before you go into marriage, you must prepare adequately for it. do not jump into marriage without preparing for it , prepare yourself. physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, socially before you go into marriage.
(7) Dressing like an harlot – As a single lady, dress like somebody that have sense, not like an harlot. any dress that exposes, your breast, thigh, back etc are ungodly dress, it only portrays you as a lady that lack home training or that is not discipline.
(8) Marrying somebody they do not love – Never marry somebody you do not love, check whether you are in love before you go into marriage. If you marry without being in love, you will regret it later, not that if God is really leading you, and you are not being stubborn. there will be the love of the person in your heart. If you are not in love, I don’t think God is in it, except if God is really in it but you have decided to close your heart. Beside that, God always makes sure he accompany his leading with H is type of love.
(9) Never go into marriage in a Hurry – Be patient, never marry in a hurry lest you marry somebody that will bury you. Wait for the time of God, go into courtship for at least nine months, open your eyes in courtship, do not be in haste lest you become a waste.
(I0) Never double – deal – If you are already engaged to a person, never get engage to any other person unless you have broken the first relationship. It is unholy to keep two relationships at the same time sharing your love between both of them
