TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE
-Bisi Adewale
TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE-Inability to leave in marriage is one of the major causes of trouble in marriage.Many claimed to have left when they are not.However,these test will help you to know the level of your leaving in marriage. TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE
Answer the following questions in order to know whether you have left your parents or not. Answer each true or false. Each question carries 10 marks:
- You have left the house where our parents live. True or False
- Your house is, at least 2 kilometres to the house of your biological parents. True or False
- You don’t report each other to your parents, friends or family. True or False
- You don’t depend on anybody financially. True or False
- You take your decisions without consulting parents and friends. True or False
- You show affection towards each other in the presence of your parents and friends. True or False TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE
- You don’t run to your parents when you have problems in your marriage. True or False
- You don’t quarrel about provision for your parents. True or False
- Both of you are free from the control or manipulation of your parents. True or False
- Neither of you has tried to force his spouse to be like his parents. True or False
- You don’t call your parents daily. True or False
- You don’t send secret gifts or money to your parents. True or False
- You don’t visit them too frequently. True or False
- Your sense of emotional well being does not depend on your parents. True or False
- Your parents are no more exercising authority over you. True or False
Every “True” you answer earns you 10 marks. Total mark obtainable is 150.
- If you score more than 130 marks you have truly left.
- If you score 80-120, you still have some work to do.
- If you score 60-80, you have not left.
- Anything below 60 is a crisis state; it means your parents are the ones dictating the pace in your marriage. Hence, your marriage has failed the Genesis 2:24 test. You have some work to do. Talk it out with your spouse and agree on how best to leave with the wisdom of God. TRUE TEST OF LEAVING IN MARRIAGE
