Symptoms of An Eroding Love Pt 2

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Symptoms of An Eroding Love Pt 2

Symptoms of An Eroding Love Pt 2

-Bisi Adewale

When you notice any of the following in your marriage know that erosion is gradually eating deep into your home:

(a) Constant breakdown of communication, stalemate and malice. These are great signs of erosion and drifting. Lovers talk easily and agree quickly.
(b) Avoidance of each other. You try as much as possible to avoid each other as you feel more at home when you are at work but feel under pressure when you are at home.
(c) Sex becomes tasking. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable between couples. Both partners should look forward to it with enthusiasm. They should enjoy giving their bodies to each other freely, lovingly and totally without any inhibition. But it becomes a task when the wife continues to deny the man her body with complaints of headaches or tiredness. She could even give him the “brush treatment”, by saying, “do whatever you want to do and let me sleep”. That means something is definitely wrong with your love life. Lovers enjoy sex.
(d) Absence of joy and pleasure.
(e) Enjoying the company of others than that of your spouse. This is another good sign of erosion. You find it easier to invest love in somebody else, thereby neglecting your spouse.
(f) Secret desire for another man or woman. Enjoying the company of others may graduate to secret desire for that person which shows another level of drifting and erosion of love and may lead to infidelity.
(g) Nagging, complaint, criticism, condemnation and comparison of one’s partner with somebody else are all symptoms of erosion of love in marriage.
(h) Bad Communication. Lack of deep, heart-to-heart communication between spouses indicate an erosion of love.

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Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments.

Get daily lesson and teaching and articles from his blog: bisiadewale.com and You can also get his resources and also send an mail to familybooster01@yahoo.com. for any counselling issue. Visit https://bisiadewale.com for daily updating!

Symptoms of An Eroding Love Pt 2