Pretense and Genuine Love – Knowing the Difference Pt 1

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Pretense and Genuine Love – Knowing the Difference Pt 1

Pretense and Genuine Love – Knowing the Difference Pt 1

Pretense and deceit has overshadowed many acclaimed love relationships to the extent that love is now missing in many of them. Though many guys claim to love several ladies, many of them have suffered countless heartbreak.

Do not be deceived; his or her so-called love may just be lust or infatuation. So take time to discover a genuine love and be free from pretense

1) TRUST:
It is one of the signs of true love. It is the important blocks for building love. A rock solid relationship is the one cemented by trust. Any lady or guy that truly loves you will always trust your words, thoughts and actions. A lady or guy who claims to love you but keeps doubting your sincerity is not really in love with you. A courtship void of trust cannot lead to an enjoyable marriage. Lack of trust will make him or her hide many of his or her secrets from you, shielding you away from the opposite sex and querying your calls. Absence of trust is a pointer to a rusty marriage ahead.

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2) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE:
Genuine love is one that emanates from the heart. Sincere love is not conditioned on anything. If the love of your so-called lover is based on your academic attainments, official position, facial look, height, sex and wealth, such lady or guy is not in love with you. If he or she is only happy when getting money or sex from you and quarrels or refrains from you when you are financially handicapped or do not give your body, then be sure he or she is a deceiver. Very soon he or she will call off the relationship.

3) SINCERITY:
A lady or guy that truly loves you will operate an “open door policy”. He or she will be open and truthful in their words, actions and dealings with you.
Sincerity is very vital in real love relationships because it is the door that leads to trust. Somebody who tells lies often hides her diary from you and who will never allow you to know his or her mail box password is not trustworthy. If you investigate thoroughly, you may discover that he or she is into another relationship. If your so-called heart throb is keeping two affairs at a time, then he or she is endangering your life. Openness and truthfulness are the hallmarks of a loving relationship.

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Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments.

Pretense and Genuine Love – Knowing the Difference Pt 1

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Pretense and Genuine Love – Knowing the Difference Pt 1