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STOP LIVING A SOLO LIFE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Daddy, I know my husband already came to report me but as you know me from childhood I love and cherish my privacy more than anything in the world. Somebody cannot just come overnight and start encroaching in my affairs.
Oh, Dad, that cannot work. I have told him we will definitely be sleeping in the same room but whenever I need to be alone, he should just let me. Is that too hard for him to understand? Ore said to her father.
The father looked confused before talking. But you know your mother and I have never slept apart in our forty-five years of marriage. I remember she used to be a private and very conservative person too but immediately she got married she dropped that identity that and since then it has been blissful.
Ore, why did you get married when you still need privacy, why are you hurting your marriage? You had better go back to your husband and stop this your solo life, you cant be married and still live the life of a single lady.
Living a solo life as a married man or woman will not help your marriage but it will hurt it. There is no longer ‘my privacy’ once you are married. It is now the union of two that must do everything together in unity and harmony.
Remember it is two that will chase ten thousand and it’s a threefold cord that cannot be easily broken. Walk together and stop walking/working alone. You need yourselves to survive in marriage.
There’s nothing like my room again but you and your husband living in the same country, the same city, the same house, the same room sleeping on the same mattress and under the same duvet.
Hear me clearly, what the Lord has joined together let no privacy or solo life put asunder.
