HELP!! MY WIFE IS STUBBORN AND VERY DIFFICULT

HELP!! MY WIFE IS STUBBORN  AND VERY DIFFICULT

Hello Pastor,

Please, I need your urgent advice.I am 33years of age and am married to my wife and we had one child. HELP!! MY WIFE IS STUBBORN  AND VERY DIFFICULT

Before I married my wife; she always listen to me, but from the time I proposed to her until now, I discovered that my wife is not teachable. A very difficult lady, she always told me that she love me but I’m always confused because she couldn’t follow my instructions.HELP!! MY WIFE IS STUBBORN  AND VERY DIFFICULT

She argues a lot. Since I married my wife; she has never for once say ‘I am sorry’ to me whenever she does something wrong to me.

She’s very quick to defend herself whenever she does something wrong to me or to someone else.She took offense whenever I try to correct her.

I also discovered that she’s more concerned about her family than me and our son, yet she claimed all is well anytime I challenge her on this.

I discovered she wasn’t doing all this intentionally but it’s part of her character, habit or attitude, because I saw the same character in the life of her Mother.

Sir, please,advice me what can i do? Thank you sir.

Counselling:

Thanks for your mail.
I believe your wife needs your help more than your condemnation. She has bad attitude that is the truth,but what she needs now is your love,then your help. She will be willing to be helped if it is done in love. Get good books for her on marriage,attend marriage seminars together and pray together.
I advise you bring her to see a counsellor for counseling sessions  for both of not for scolding of her,but first both of you have to discus the issue with when you are not fighting but in good mood,may be she will be able to see reason then.
I will also advise you to sit her down for heart to heart discussion when you are not fighting

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