Listen to it here:
BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY
You cannot kill me, like father like son. You are just like your useless father. When are you going to grow up and behave like a normal human being? Must you always exhibit your father’s character? Tommy emulates good thing, emulate me, I am your mother. Don’t be a bastard,
Tommy’s Mum shouted from the room till lshe got to where the children were seated watching cartoon.
They all looked amazed wondering what has come over their mother again.
Then she began, that is how your father will litter our room with his boxers, socks and just throw his shoes anywhere he feels like throwing them,
Tommy, must you litter your room always? Sachet of water everywhere, oh my God! You will not kill me…
Mothers, I greet you this beautiful morning and I want to take out this moment to commend you for the great work you are doing in your home but must you always compare the children with their father?
Whatever the problem is between you and your spouse, always leave the children out of it. Stop comparing them with their father and hear this you are doing yourself a great disservice calling their father all sort of names while correcting them.
Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing bad in you correcting the children when they are wrong but leave their father out of it. Address the issue at hand and not targeting another person by calling them names.
Your children might dislike you if you continue labeling their father irrespective of what the matter is.
Another thing is when you paint their father badly, they may grow up believing their father is truly irresponsible and not accord him the respect due him.
If you continue this way, you could end up losing your respect as well and they see you as a bad mother who doesn’t respect her husband.
BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY
