HOW TO END EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR
Are you entangled with a strange woman? Do you know that it is dangerous to remain in that relationship? Are you ready to be free? If you are ready, you have to do everything I will tell you here.
- Pray about it; confess your sins to God and tell Him to forgive you.
- Repent of your sins and turn from it.
- Tell your wife about the affair.
- Make a commitment to your wife never to see or be with this woman again.
- Give the strange woman a written note that states you’ve ended the relationship. Let your wife be privy to this note before you send it.
- Take extraordinary precautions to guarantee total separation from the lover for example:
- You could relocate, change church or get a new job.
- Avoid friends who encourage you to continue the ungodly lifestyle.
- Block all potential communications with the strange woman, change your phone numbers, e-mail address, delete her from the list of your friends on social networking sites like face book, twitter, etc.
- Be accountable to your wife. Let her pick your calls. Keep her informed of money spent and make financial decisions with her. Account for the time you spend daily; constantly give her a feedback of your movement per time. Spend more time with your wife and family.
- Hang the picture of your wife in your office.
- Unfaithfulness in marriage is costly. The pain involved is greater than the perceived pleasure. In fact, enjoyment in sex is just 8 seconds, it can never be more than that; it can only be less. Will you allow 8 seconds of pleasure to destroy your life, family, future and your relationship with God?
Whatever you are looking for in a woman is loaded in your wife with security.
All other women are loaded with poison. Your wife is filled with pleasure; get the pleasure at home, run away from the poison. Be careful!
