16 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND-Most wives believe that men are tough,their heart is hard and impenetrable. Despite this,there are 16 things every wife can do to melt the heart of her husband.They are:
1.PUBLIC RESPECT:Men ,regardless of their race,colour,height or class in the society wants to be respected by their wives even if she is the one feeding them.Top among the respect they crave for is public respect. They want to be addressed with respect in the presence of their friends,colleagues and onlookers.Stop calling him by his first name,call him :My Lord,M.D,Sweet heart,My love,etc.Respect his orders, instructions,opinions and respect his uniqueness.Talk to him with respect and let him know that you do.Any woman that disrespect her husband outside shall have a difficult man to live with.
2.TAKE TO HIS CORRECTIONS:No matter your height or achievement in life,you must be humble enough to obey your husband.Honour him,let him control you , take to his corrections and don’t be stubborn.Don’t disdain his authority,be teachable and you will be greatly loved by him.
- LOVE HIS MOTHER:Majority of wives often make the mistake of marrying their husbands only and declaring hatred and war to his mother. This is a grave error.You can not hate his mother and expect him to love you. Men love their mother so much because that is the first woman in their lives.Accept his mother,demonstrate love to her by buying things for her on your own,encourage your husband to visit her together.Don’t jus love his mother alone,love his father and his entire family.
4.BE FASHIONABLE: No man can resist an attractive woman,with good dress sense. Be neat,put on clean,current and fitted attire with a very good colour combination. Stop dressing like an old school woman who has no sense for clour matching with lose clothes thereby looking older than her age.Dress like a babe,not like a woman.
5.COOK HIS FOOD: Whosoever controls the mouth of a man controls his heart.This is so,because the road to the heart of a man is through the kitchen door.Don’t be too busy to cook for your husband.Create the time to cook his meal the way he wants it ,stop delegating his meal to housemaids or your sblings.Cook delicious and timely meal food for him.
6.SERVE HIS FOOD :Don’t just cook his food alone,serve it specially.Don’t delegate it to someone else,serve his food with special plates and treat him like a VIP.Treat him like a special guest on the dining table.
7.BUY GIFTS FOR HIM:Contrary to general belief that only men should be buying gifts for women,in marriage,men normally appreciate gifts from their wives.Don’t just wait for him to buy gifts for you,buy for him too.Strange women often trade with this secrets even though;they will get triple of the amount spent.Wives,wise up!
8.GIVE HIM FINANCIAL SUPPORT:Some men go into extra-marital affairs with women older than them due to her financial status.This attitude is wrong but it is a pointer to the fact that men also want financial support from the women in their lives.Don’t just be his wife,be his financial supporter.Help him financially to finance his project,fix his car,build a house,pay the children school fees whenever the need arise.Give him financial support and he will give you his entire life.
9.SPEND TIME WITH HIM:When a woman become too busy to have time for her husband,she has lost a companion. It takes time to build intimacy ,companionship don’t happen accidentally,it is a product of time investment.Create time for your husband,value him more than your job because he is your life-time job.
10.APPRECIATE HIM: Appreciation is attaching value or importance to any gifts received or kind deed received from somebody.Every man love to be appreciated.Don’t see anything done to you by your husband as a right,see it as a privilege and thank him.Appreciate his stature,money for upkeep,house rent paid,children school fees,for eating your food,among others.Don’t overlook little kindness.
11.LISTEN TO HIM:Always give your husband a listening hear with rapt attention whenever he is talking to you.Don’t give room to divided attention while he is talking.Stop the phone conversation,turn away from the soap opera ,stop loosing your hair just to listen to him,don’t argue with him.This will excites him and make him love you more.
12.BE FAITHFUL TO HIM:Your beauty and dressing will keep attracting other men to you but do not give in to them.Never permit any other man in your life,do not defile your bed.Stick to your husband alone.He is enough for you.
13.TELL THE CHILDREN ,HE IS THE BEST MAN:Keep telling your children to his hearing and when he is not around that he is the best husband and a daddy.That they are privilege to have him as their father.There is no man that will hear this that will not be happy.Don’t join the league of women that keep insulting their husbands in the presence of their children.
14.DEVELOP INTEREST IN HIS HOBBY:Some women make the mistake of fighting their husband because of his passion for his hobby.The best way to get a man is through his hobby.If he loves football,fall in love with his club.Love his vision,passion,profession and ministry.
15.MASSAGE HIS BODY:After the day’s work,make it an habit to always massage his body. This will bring him to the state of rest removing tension from him ,making him homely indeed.With this,he always rush home after work,having no time to handout with the boys.
16.ENJOY SEX WITH HIM:There is no way you can get to the heart of your husband if you deny him sex.Release your body to him,satisfy his sexual longing.Don’t let him hunt for sex outside.Enjoy sex with him and he make life enjoyable to you.
