Building Healthy Marriage 11
Building Healthy Marriage 11
-Bisi adewale
A healthy marriage is a key factor to longevity, But it does not come cheaply it required a great responsibility to come up with. Stated below are what must be put into consideration to build a healthy marriage.
1. Forgive Generously. Healthy marriage cannot be built without the spirit of forgiveness, you will continue to offend each other as your “iron sharpneth iron”. If you don’t learn to forgive, you will grow apart instead of growing together.
– Forgiveness means you don’t refer to that issue again.
– Forgiveness means you return to your normal relationship after the offence.
– Forgiveness means you still value him or her despite the hurts
– Forgiveness means praying for the offender
– Forgiveness means treating the case as if it never happens
– Forgiveness means not given room for malice, bitterness, resentment and bickering, etc.
– Forgiveness means not reporting to third party.
– Forgiveness means saying ‘I forgive you’ and really mean it.
2. Deliberately Build Intimacy. Marriages suppose to be the most intimate of all human relationships. Building intimacy is a thing that must be done by all Godly couples; build a close personal relationship with your wife or husband, been vulnerable to each other. This you can do by:
– Talking closely, openly without any barrier.
– Offending each other
– Dating each other
– Relaxing together (Busyness do destroy the business of marriage, avoid it)
– Be nice to each other
– Play like school boys and girls in love (do pillow fight, hide and seek, bubble burst, masquerade “ojuju” game).
– Crack jokes, laugh, and smile.
– Attend church together, go on retreat.
– Plan your future together
– Fight your battles together.
Building Healthy Marriage 11
Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments.
Get daily lesson and teaching and articles from his blog: bisiadewale.com and You can also get his resources and also send an mail to familybooster01@yahoo.com. for any counselling issue. Visit https://bisiadewale.com for daily updating!
