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GET A WHITE PAPER FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
Dad I need to divorce Joke before she kills me, she is terrible and horrible. I have done everything to bring her to her senses but to no avail.
His Dad look at him and said, Daniel my Son, can you tell me some of the things you do to bring her to her senses.
Ah Daddy, i will tell you and you will know that i have tried to tame the animal in her but failed.
I stopped eating her food, i refused to sleep with her, i left the room to show my anger, i refused to talk to bring her to her senses, at times i even sleep in the office just to avoid her, i refuse to pick her calls and keep to my room during the weekend, i have really tried to tame her, i admit that i have failed, what i need now is your approval for a divorce before I lose my life.
His Father wrote everything he said he has been doing, he ended up listing twelve points which he deduced from their discussion.
After this he said to his Son, My Son, kindly take this white paper from me, read it and tell me the kind of Partner this person could be with this kind of attitude. Chucks grudgingly collected the paper from his Father and read it.
His father asked, will you ever pray that your Daughter marry a man with this attitude to his wife? You’ve been the kind of Husband she is not praying to Marry, she must be praying now that her Daughter should never marry a man like you, if you divorce her and marry another wife with this attitude of yours, you will have the same problem.
Dear listener,
It is possible you’ve been blaming your spouse for the state of your marriage, you are not alone in this game, everybody plays it, it is called blame game, but nobody has ever won it, every player in the game is a loser.
Can we play another game now, i call it white paper game, everybody can play it and everybody can win.
Get a plain sheet of Paper and a Pen, write down all your errors, omissions and mistakes in your marriage, don’t think anyone is small, write everything, one way to remember are the constant complaints of your spouse, either you agree with them on not.
In front of each, write what you will do to oppose them and practice what you have written for 2 months and let’s see your spouse’s response.
I promise you will have a new spouse if you can just play this game in humility.
You will have a better marriage, your home can be better if you can just change for better. Your attitudes are not cast in iron, you can change. Be a better person in that marriage.
