The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
Bisi Adewale
The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2-Your family should be a royalty family. The wife should be queen and the husband a king, our houses should be palaces and our children princes and princesses.The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
This is the will of God for our families; anything contrary to this is not in His book.
How do we build a royal family? How do we become royal couples?
This can be done if we do the following:
1. Make your spouse the number one on your ‘to do list’: Indifference is one of the strongest killers of marriage; couples in bad marriages are fond of committing this great ‘crime’, most don’t have the thought of their spouse in their mind and have no plan to be together. Lack of attention is very dangerous to the success of any marriage. Cherish the opportunity to be with your spouse. Be friends; be a companion and be fond of each other.The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
The time you make available to be with your spouse will show how much you value him or her. You can never build a great marriage when you are never together. Married partners are not suppose to be ‘pen pals’, they are suppose to be intimate lovers; with great attachment bond which spending adequate time together can do. Hence, deliberately create your own ‘Time-out’ period. Keep on dating each other as if you are yet to be married.
2. Pray together. There is something great that happens when husband and wife pray together, it brings them together and brings God into their relationship. It produces a spiritual super glue to join them together.
3. Love-Check Tongue: Let love control your mouth. Highly successful couples have known how to say the ‘bitter truth’ in a loving way without hurting their spouses. Don’t just talk, talk with love, no matter how angry you are, never speak to hurt, never speak to pull down, let your tongue be a builder at home and not ever be a killer. The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
4. Build Two-People’s-Marriage: Make it your habit never to report your spouse to a third party; learn to talk about your differences and settle them. Avoid reporting your spouse to your friends, families, parents, etc; it is a sign of immaturity. If you need help; get it from a professional counselor and elderly ministers. Your friends and family members should remain what they are- ‘third party’.
5. Husband-Honour your wife: Queens are meant to be honoured; they are not to be pushed around or to be beaten like criminals. Great husbands honour their wives, they celebrates their wives and honour them.The Making Of Royal Couples Pt 2
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
